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£10,000 Wedding Gift Help!!!
momma2
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PLEASE HELP!!! My fiance' and I have just received £10,000 :rotfl:as a pre-wedding gift to pay for the whole thing from my father and we have no idea what sort of account to put it into, i'm currently in arrears in my account and my fiance' only has a buisness account-neither of which we want the money to go into. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated...THANK YOU IN ADVANCE
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PLEASE HELP!!! My fiance' and I have just received £10,000 :rotfl:as a pre-wedding gift to pay for the whole thing from my father and we have no idea what sort of account to put it into, i'm currently in arrears in my account and my fiance' only has a buisness account-neither of which we want the money to go into. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated...THANK YOU IN ADVANCE
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try reading this ... http://www.moneysavingexpert.com/savings/savings-accounts-best-interest
I suggest you want instant access to it - assuming that the wedding is soon - but if you aren't goint to need some of the money for a while, how about putting some of it in an isa - you will then not have to pay tax on the interest.
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why don't you want to clear the arrears on your acccount?
do they not attract charges and interest?0 -
Because its a gift from her father to pay for a wedding not her debt0
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What a nice problem to have. I would do one of two things.
(i) Open an account with a different bank - one you or your b/f don't have money owing too.
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(ii) Ask your Dad, if he would mind terribly, if rather than take 10k in one go, if you could keep a little book, and let him pay for the wedding as you go along.
Good LuckAsk me no questions, and I'll tell you no lies0 -
why don't you want to clear the arrears on your acccount?
do they not attract charges and interest?
Father: "Here you go, have £10k for your wedding"
Offspring:"Thanks dad"..... "Here you go mr Bank man, pay off my debt with wedding money...."
Father (at wedding): "F**k me, weddings must be expensive now.....I swear i'm in a shed eating a big mac...."
:rotfl:Debts at LBM (May '08) £5760 - Lloyds CC £4260, Lloyds OD £1500;Debts as of May 28th 2011:Santander CC: £0.00Lloyds OD : £0.00DFW Nerd #1247 - Proudly dealt with my Debts
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Father: "Here you go, have £10k for your wedding"
Offspring:"Thanks dad"..... "Here you go mr Bank man, pay off my debt with wedding money...."
Father (at wedding): "F**k me, weddings must be expensive now.....I swear i'm in a shed eating a big mac...."
:rotfl:
bizarre
why speculate when you can know
I'm a father and if I knew my offspring were in financial trouble I would, subject to knowing the full facts, be willing to help
maybe others wouldn't but that's a personal choice0 -
Thanks to all......

I'd love to pay my debts off but as mentioned before this is a gift for us both and not to clear my personal problems. I think a new joint account seems the way forward but with which bank and account etc...????0 -
hehe.... true true!!!0
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I think a new joint account seems the way forward
Only if you want to tar your partner with any adverse credit ratings you have ...... as a joint account will do that. Open a Savings account (credit check not normally done) to clear the cheque through.If you want to test the depth of the water .........don't use both feet !0 -
Thanks to all......

I'd love to pay my debts off but as mentioned before this is a gift for us both and not to clear my personal problems. I think a new joint account seems the way forward but with which bank and account etc...????
I would suggest that you both open an instant access isa, putting in £5,000 each - then as you need the money just take it out ... this way you will earn interest & will not have to pay tax on it.
Look at the article I pointed to previously for the best one.
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