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Can you ask too many questions?

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  • GregtheHammer
    GregtheHammer Posts: 1,036 Forumite
    I agree with other posters, normally if I get someone who starts asking too many questions, they get blocked, you just get that smell about some buyers.

    Op you have done the right thing blocking them I think.
  • lindseykim13
    lindseykim13 Posts: 2,978 Forumite
    isn't there any way you can block messages from them as well.

    Good job you blocked them before they bid, but I probably would have deleted the bid anyway.

    It would be nice to block her messages (i might see if they take the hint first before looking into it) i just hate seeing i've got messages at the moment!
  • durham_girl
    durham_girl Posts: 2,715 Forumite
    I blocked someone last week who sent me 18 messages over 3 days :eek:
    She then asked me why I'd blocked her, needless to say I didn't reply...
    :j30/7/10:j

    :j24/1/14 :j
  • piratefairy
    piratefairy Posts: 4,342 Forumite
    Eep, 18 msgs over 3 days is seriously interested!
    I've had a couple today from someone asking about a BIN price as he'll be away when the auction ends blah blah blah..
    First of all he offered a laughably low price to end early, so I answered with a reasonable price, and by the time he responds someone else has bid on the item. So I'm not sure what to do now. Seems a bit unfair to now cancel the other bidders bid, so that I can relist as BIN for someone else. :S
  • cyberbob
    cyberbob Posts: 9,480 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I've had a couple today from someone asking about a BIN price as he'll be away when the auction ends blah blah blah..

    Tell him to bid his highest price now then :D
  • piratefairy
    piratefairy Posts: 4,342 Forumite
    That's what I sent:

    "Now that there is a bid on the item, I can't change it, so will be honouring the auction, as it's not really fair to other bidders to cancel their bids. If you did want a chance of winning, why not place your highest bid before you go away - if you win, I'll be happy to wait for payment until you return. Have a nice time away.
    Kind regards, piratefairy."

    Think that was ok??!
  • cyberbob
    cyberbob Posts: 9,480 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    That's what I sent:

    "Now that there is a bid on the item, I can't change it, so will be honouring the auction, as it's not really fair to other bidders to cancel their bids. If you did want a chance of winning, why not place your highest bid before you go away - if you win, I'll be happy to wait for payment until you return. Have a nice time away.
    Kind regards, piratefairy."

    Think that was ok??!

    Perfect :D
  • Astec
    Astec Posts: 515 Forumite
    All ok except the "I'll be happy to wait for payment until you return" bit, they may take 2 months to pay!!!
  • piratefairy
    piratefairy Posts: 4,342 Forumite
    Oh, I guess. He said he was away when the auction ended, for a few days. I didn't want to seem rude by turning down the offer, so thought that kept it friendly.....but you could be right. They have one less watcher now anyway - i'm assumig that was him!
  • chrisjw37
    chrisjw37 Posts: 75 Forumite
    Thats one question too many Missy
    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
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