i've been so stupid :'(

Gleeful

With a new username I mean.

ivebeenstupid

he went and spoke to said friend last night, when i tried talking to him he was just said he doesn't trust me know how could he trust me, he's about trust and loyalaty and i've just ruined that all, i spent all day yesterday being sick and crying for feeling so guilty and was gonna tell him but i left my facebook open and he read it.

i wasn't gossiping to my friend as he is a mutual friend between us two so is usually the words of wisdom but he just see's what he wants to see.

he slept in the front room and didn't say a word to me apart from that how could he trust me.

do you know i'd rather him scream and shout and threaten to leave blah blah blah this is so much worse than this, all over 4 text messages that he didn't even read

im so stupid

shellsuit

Gleeful wrote: »

It's a regular poster on here

I didn't know if that meant a reg on here as in this board, or a reg on here as in MSE.

Just wondered if it would make any difference if they were just BF and GF or planning their wedding.

shellsuit

ivebeenstupid wrote: »

he went and spoke to said friend last night, when i tried talking to him he was just said he doesn't trust me know how could he trust me, he's about trust and loyalaty and i've just ruined that all, i spent all day yesterday being sick and crying for feeling so guilty and was gonna tell him but i left my facebook open and he read it.

i wasn't gossiping to my friend as he is a mutual friend between us two so is usually the words of wisdom but he just see's what he wants to see.

he slept in the front room and didn't say a word to me apart from that how could he trust me.

do you know i'd rather him scream and shout and threaten to leave blah blah blah this is so much worse than this, all over 4 text messages that he didn't even read

im so stupid

Why don't you just tell him what the text messages said?

Things can't be any worse than they are right now can they, so come clean and tell him about the messages.

You owe him that for being deceitful and he owes it to you to listen about how you are feeling.

ivebeenstupid

i wouldn't be posting in the wedding thread if i was just bf/gf we are/were due to get married this year.

he read what i said to the x in my convo with our best friend.

i was totally open with everything i said to him ( my best friend) and he read it all.

i just wish he screamed and shouted rather than go silent, he isn't that type and he isn't in the best place at the moment.

i am such a cow

shellsuit

The only thing then is to explain why you sent the messages/replied to them, and tell him how you feel.

If you can't do it, write it in a letter and leave it somewhere where he will see it.

Gleeful

shellsuit wrote: »

I didn't know if that meant a reg on here as in this board, or a reg on here as in MSE.

Just wondered if it would make any difference if they were just BF and GF or planning their wedding.

They are a regular poster on Weddings board.


Sounds like a mess, hope you get something sorted soon, think he's going to need a lot of space.

ivebeenstupid

shellsuit wrote: »

The only thing then is to explain why you sent the messages/replied to them, and tell him how you feel.

If you can't do it, write it in a letter and leave it somewhere where he will see it.

think thats what i'm going to do x