i've been so stupid :'(

ivebeenstupid

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bubbles0169

you should go to the docs and ask for help
either with implants or therapy to help you live with what youve got
why not book your self in for some spray tan or find a decent looking bottle of it
you have to learn to love yourself or youl push people away too much

m000_2

Regarding the texts. I think it's unfair that you should decided for your OH what's best. You've made a silly mistake but you should at least give him the chance to make his own decisions/choices - it's the consequences of your actions unfortunately.

It sounds like you need a good chat with your OH too. I've learnt that communication is key to a healthy relationship and it often helps to talk everything out.

Good luck!

RainbowDrops

m000 wrote: »

It sounds like you need a good chat with your OH too. I've learnt that communication is key to a healthy relationship and it often helps to talk everything out.

Agreed (as with others).

It seems that this post has highlighted other problems in your relationship, and that the "sexting" has brought them to the fore.

Hope you manage to work things out, but try not to just burry your head in the sand - it sounds like you need to deal with some issues in order to sort out the relationship with your current partner.

mellymeep

I'm gonna give my honest opinion. If you find it so easy to lie and keep things from your OH right now then your not going to think twice about being dishonest in the future. The key to a healthy happy relationship is honesty and trust, and if you haven't got that then there is no point in carrying on.

My OH cheated on me while we were starting out dating, he had the courage to tell me and yes I was extremely hurt but we got over it together, I appreciated the fact he completely put himself on the line for our relationships integrity and it only served to make us stronger, we keep no secrets from each other.

anderson8

i couldnt keep that from my H2B, but i wouldnt have done it in the first place.
the key really is honestly in a relationship.
you need to be honest with him about how you feel about your body and explain thats why you dont liked being "groped"
as good as men are, mind readers they are not.

ivebeenstupid

it doesn't matter anyway now.

i left my facebook open and he read a convo i was having with my best friend and left me a note say

stupid girl! shouldn't leave your facebook logged in! red the whole convo with alex, your a f**king lier. we are done!

to be expected really.

lulubelle-32

im so sorry to hear about your situation, It seems you judt got caught up in a situation and lets face it we all make horrible mistakes sometimes. I do hope you manage to sort things out. I think the only way forward is total honesty. good luck!

frannyann

I am going to be blunt, but having being divorced with a toddler, I hope you understand why?

I have not seen your deleted posts but get the gist of things, BUT you are both parents to a 3 year old little boy. You both owe it to him to sit down to talk to each other like adults, not via notes and gossiping about it to your mates on facebook!! You made a commitment to each other by having a child together and if you have issues with the way he treats you then you owe it to your son to discuss these with your partner. Your partner also needs to behave like an adult, and adults do not scare small children by smashing phones.

Having bitter experience of what having 'two' homes does to a small child, I urge you to have a full and frank discussion of the whole situation with your partner.

Gleeful

shellsuit wrote: »

Are you engaged to be married? (Just wondering with it being posted on this board)

If you are, then everything needs nipping in the bud otherwise what is the point in being engaged, let alone planning to get wed.

It's a regular poster on here