MSE Parents Club Part 13

gill_81uk

Becles - you are very much mistaken that the poster your refer to is more popular than you! Do a name search and you'll see how many times you've been referred to either through someone missing you or talking about advice you gave/could give. Good to see you and Tara back tho - hope you'll stay

Thanks for the vertbaudet code....wish I'd read Michelle's post about getting it off a £19 spend before I added some overpriced socks to make my order up lol. Got my cot sheets, some tommee tippee fast flow teats, grey bootees and brown socks for £8

I must go to bed now.....I'm on night watch and early morning as it's DH's turn for a lie in doh

Sami_Bee

SusanC wrote: »

Care to share some of the evidence so that other people can see for themselves? I have been thinking through all the things I can remember and aside from the unlikeliness of his life in general (e.g. all the dramas, partners leaving etc. which have happened) I haven't been able to think of anything and if I were to assume him a fake on the basis of those things, I would have to assume others were too (which I don't). To accuse someone of something and expect everyone else to believe you without citing any actual evidence seems rather unfair regardless of whether you are right about it or not.

I'm not really expecting everyone else to just believe me (although I am always right if anyone asks )
I haven't been keeping a list or anything just sort of things have stuck in my mind, most recent I suppose is the MW visit where he said L was measured then when it was pointed out that MWs don't measure you that early he quickly changed his story to she looked big.

Buttonmoons

BeenieCat wrote: »

I want... no - NEED the Fisher Price Sillytown. Has anyone got it?? I think Amber will LOVE it, but it's £50 everywhere.. though £30 in Boots.

http://www.boots.com/en/Fisher-Price-Stack-and-Surprise-Song-Smiles-Silly-Town_953801/

I really want it

I really want one of those too. Can you get me one for Christmas?

Sami_Bee

Beenie - thats in the 3 for 2, is there anything else you could get to put away for Christmas?

Sami_Bee

OMG Tim Minchin made a joke involving a baby dying and I laughed - I'm going to hell!

SugarSpun

I agree Sami - that made me wonder, along with a few other things that were incongruous and odd and that contradicted things he's said in the past. I was also very uncomfortable when he mentioned cleaning up his daughter's TOTM and more so when nobody commented on it and it was said a couple more times. I've not sent any abusive PMs* and aside from a couple of explanatory messages to people who asked about it today I've not sent any on the subject.

I've no idea whether he's genuine or not, but there are things I've found odd and things that have made me uncomfortable. I also thought the way he attacked Beenie was completely unacceptable, and it seemed to me that he was picking on her because she's an easier target than Tia. In any case, I would much rather be wrong and be embarrassed than be right and feel uncomfortable that someone's been in among a group of people I think of as friends wearing a nice mask and finding it funny that I don't know about it.


*I'm tempted to send Bruno one for insulting my ellipses, though. I've been deleting them all day and it's frankly tedious.

Edit: I was hoping to be proved wrong, but since he is now modifying posts and putting PT members' real names in some of them I am guessing I wasn't, or if I was then I'm not now. A shame.

Sarah_Joanne

Sami_Bee wrote: »

I'm not really expecting everyone else to just believe me (although I am always right if anyone asks )
I haven't been keeping a list or anything just sort of things have stuck in my mind, most recent I suppose is the MW visit where he said L was measured then when it was pointed out that MWs don't measure you that early he quickly changed his story to she looked big.

I have to say that I found this a bit strange too, the midwife isn't likely to have measured Lucy in anyway at just 9 weeks, nor is she liekly to offer an extra scan before the 12 week scan to check for any possible complications.

As someone who has had 7 children previously from 6 pregnancies (partners' pgs) I found it slightly odd that he didn't know that the length of the pg is calculated from the date of last MP. Even though the last one was so long ago it's something that would stick in your mind I would imagine as it's a funny was of measuring it.

I was also very weirded out by his comments about cleaning up his daughter's ToTM. I'm not really sure what he thought might need to be cleaned up.

And I don't believe there was a PM and certainly not one that warrants police attention. Nobody knows who he is so a threat is unlikely.

Plus, his whole story just seems so implausible.

This is just my take on it obviously but thought I would share. Everyone is entitled to make what they wish of it and make their own minds up.

MichelleM

RANT ALERT!

:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad: :wall: :wall:
Stupid neighbour has been at it all week, swearing, racist comments and shouting opposite our house- waking up our daughter! Ive rang the police on 3 separate occasions this week. Well, not 3 since I rang more than once over each evening.

Did they turn up? NO. NOT ONCE!!!! He was even threatening a child in the street yesterday.

I am sooooo angry I could cry.

I just recieved a call from an officer NOW... after I rang the police again at 5ish. (They didnt turn up.) And he didnt have a clue about the previous calls or the fact that he was arrested a week ago and is in court in a few weeks for the same thing.

He wanted to come to my house now to take a statement. I told him to listen to all those calls I made with him shouting in the background, get his notes together before he even speaks to me again.

What should I do as the police are clearly not doing their job. He even suggested that he would need a statement from me as I could just be making it up as I may have it in for him. If they came when we called- or even 4 hours after because hes still out- they would EFFIN know.

Has anyone dealt with this kind of thing in the past?

Sami_Bee

Michelle- can you record him doing it, even if it's on your mobile? If you can identify him and make out shouting I would hope that would prove it
If not send the videos to Granada reports
Id try to offer further help but I'm afraid my only GMP mate is a lowly PCSO and I don't think his patch is anywhere near you. Shame your not in one the the other closeish areas coz between me n 3 we have a few contacts.
Oh I have just remembered that they werecovering the Blackpool lights and streaming it online! I was gonna lookfor 3 on the coverage :doh:

jillie1974

morning
up early with a poorly kian. is full of a cold again and is not a happy bunny.
dh also has a cold, must be one i've already had as i a fine. work today so kian is at PIL, he'll get lots of cuddles there