Happy Thursday Everyone!!

judi24

Bun - that's not good - why is he going to bed so late? does he give you a reason?

littlemisschocolate

Hugs Bun, I don't know what to say or suggest.

We're here for you if you want to vent and let off steam.

LMCX

sallyx

Pepe those trunks are simply crazy and not practical! Enjoy your walk to meet Mrs P...its lovely out there (well looking out from the shop window it is)

Judi, many things causing me to be tired and emotional...mainly hormonal, but financial, crappy job, under pressure to get new job, lack of time with OH...the list is endless but I am trying to look at all the lovely positive and good things in life, after all there are people who are far far worse off than me!

Bunnyinthelights

LMC-he just says he was watching tv.
Because there is already an issue in our relationship, I take it very personally, rightly or wrongly...tried to talk to him about it and got told that 'I need to think long and hard about how he treats me-I am not horrible to you ya know'

I know he isn't-I just feel sad. He said he was worried about the other house we have (there is a plumbing issue) and I said unless he tells me what he is worried about, I can't help or just take it all personally. Everytime in the past I have tried to riase the problems, I get told 'there isnt a problem' well, clearly there is but he is fine with things as they are. I am not but can't bear going over the same argument we have had for nearly 17 years.

Right, I am fed up and boring myself. Sorry for talking a load of crap.

I need to get a grip-I have a friend who is being torn in half because she lost her terminally ill son 7 weeks ago and here I am getting upset about being in bed alone.

What a [EMAIL="tw@t"]!!!!!![/EMAIL]

Pooky

Morning all

Wannabe - Great news on the moving in malarky - hope it all goes to plan :beer:

Buns - I think you need to have serious words with your DH - it's not right that you feel so lonely. Hope your mood lifts soon x

Been for a lovely walk and watched the fog take over again - need to spend a couple of hours on housework later but a new sewing pattern arrived in the post so I'm itching to get going on it.

I have £2 to last until the 16th :eek:- I think I need to get creative with the meal planner.

judi24

Sal sounds like me!!! Life is just exhausting sometimes - On Monday i wanted to pack kids in car and drive away - no idea where or what I would do! Just wanted to run away from the world! Instead I am off to sunny Bury - to be subjected to death by self analysis!!! catch you all later x

sallyx

Bun...you know what I think about the situation, there is an issue and thats FACT. He needs to realise that his actions are not normal whether thats because thats how he's been brought up or not. Your feelings are valid and you have every right to feel lonely...an unaffectionate relationship will make you feel like that. I totally get why you are torn hun...but they are his issues which are causing you to be sad and I don't like him for that as you deserve so much better

sallyx

judi24 wrote: »

Sal sounds like me!!! Life is just exhausting sometimes - On Monday i wanted to pack kids in car and drive away - no idea where or what I would do! Just wanted to run away from the world! Instead I am off to sunny Bury - to be subjected to death by self analysis!!! catch you all later x

As much as I love B I would love to run off on my own (would probably miss her and want to come home after a day) and have a break, get away and have some time out...life is relentless and not having had a day off for 4 months im tired

scaredy_cat

just had a call from the vets, my cat's bp is a bit low now so they have reduced her meds but to help her renal functions she's on another tablet as well... so just got to wait to see if the anti b's stop the seizures over the weekend.

Bunnyinthelights

Ah Scaredy, how old is she hunny?

Sal-I know, I know, I really think DH thinks I am barmy because he just doesn't see the corelation between how I am feeling and the lack of affection. He thinks because we don't argue and things are ok every other way that there really isnt a problem...I think maybe I am just asking for too expecting that when everything else is fine.