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  • Breast_Cancer_Survivor
    Breast_Cancer_Survivor Posts: 10,838 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    edited 12 June 2010 at 1:50PM
    sunnyone wrote: »
    You appeared here wetting yourself because you had an IUC, thats what you told us and you found out that you were breaking the rules by LTAMAW so he moved in after that, thats the concise version.
    1. I posted on here saying that a customer compliance officer was coming to see me not that I had an interview undercaution.
    2. The reason I was nervous is because I have asperger's. depression/anxiety and am nervous meeting people I don't know hence why the DWP rescheduled so my OT could be present.
    3. My bf hadn't moved in with me, he had a council house in another town 30 miles away from where I lived & had just moved into his mum's house 15 miles away to be nearer so he could help me out taking the kids to school because I was in trouble over their attendance.
    4. The DWP ruled that I was not breaking any rules & was not LTAMAW.


    I dont feel sorry for you or anyone else with your condition or any other, it dosnt come into anything what anyones disabilities are for me.

    Your a proffessional victim and saying that your children will always be on benefits is disgusting, many people with autism work and live life to the full, you are happy to say that they will never have a life, how sad is that?
    1. What's a proffesional victim? Am I making a proffesion out of having cancer?
    2. Ive been very unfortunate with my health, I 1st had breast cancer at the age of 24 & it came back when I was 33. I had surgery to save my life & an over zealous surgeon took my healthy right breast & lympth nodes without permission which lead to me having ecoli infections repeatedly hindering my reconstruction & leaving me with only 1 breast (the one that had cancer ironically).
    3. I worked & lived a full life with my autism until I got cancer for the 2nd time, jeez you really have selective hearing or should I say reading.
    4. I never said my kids would never have a life, I said at some point they may have to claim something (i'm just being realistic) of course I want my kids to have a normal life & there is no reason why they shouldn't.

    So today your sons get DLA, they didnt a few weeks ago.
    1. I never said my son's didn't get DLA, I said I wasn't on IS I was on IB, I only recently found out that I was entitled to IS from being a carer to my 2 sons.

    My daughter has a disability, she did work till she was heavily pregnant and she will finish this college course and work again to keep her and her son, thats whats diffrent between my daughter and your sons.
    1. I worked until I was heavily pregnant with both my boys then at 36 weeks pregnant & with an 18 month old in tow my oh walked out & left me just as your daughters had & ive never heard from him since (that was 1996).
    2. I never said my sons would be on benefits I said at some point they may need to be in the future just as your daughter is now. My eldest son is 16 in November & after finishing his last year at school will be leaving with numerous A/A* GCSE in order to go to collage to sit his A levels. He is then planning on going to university & getting a degree.

    Again you mention your disability and past medical history, no one else does at the drop of a hat.

    I mention my past medical history as its relevant to the reason im on benefits duh! As ive said numerous times & which you choose to ignore I worked fulltime from school until my 2nd bout of cancer showed its face & I got really depressed & anxious.


    You really are an unpleasant person.
    I'd rather regret the things I've done than regret the things I haven't done.
    Lucille Ball
  • viktory
    viktory Posts: 7,635 Forumite
    BCS & sunnyone - clearly you have issues - why not put each other on ignore? This is not the first thread that has become the BCS thread (you sure love trotting out your history BCS!) and to be honest, it is unfair on the OP.
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    viktory wrote: »
    BCS & sunnyone - clearly you have issues - why not put each other on ignore? This is not the first thread that has become the BCS thread (you sure love trotting out your history BCS!) and to be honest, it is unfair on the OP.

    I am looking for some benefit help at the minute, but hardly worth posting on the benefit board at the minute, as there are 3 or 4 characters that totally dominate most of the threads and take them OT (I know this post is OT but I sense we veered wildly off a couple of pages ago!) :o
  • viktory wrote: »
    BCS & sunnyone - clearly you have issues - why not put each other on ignore? This is not the first thread that has become the BCS thread (you sure love trotting out your history BCS!) and to be honest, it is unfair on the OP.

    sunnyone has issue's with me & I think you will find that she is the one that keeps bringing up my history seing as she keeps mentioning my 1st post which was over a year ago.

    I've being defending myself but you are right she should put me on ignore if I bother her that much.

    It's funny how you lot stick together, it's fine for her to keep attacking me in these threads but if I reply it's my fault & i'm hijacking the thread.

    Typical of this forum really seeing as everyone who comes here looking for advice including the op is attacked by the benefit bashers who look down their nose's at everyone but think it's fine to claim for them & their families.
    I'd rather regret the things I've done than regret the things I haven't done.
    Lucille Ball
  • Relax, dear. It's just an internet forum.
  • clb776
    clb776 Posts: 647 Forumite
    lol, loving this :) don't let people put you off posting. Most people on here really help, you just need to ignore some people!
  • viktory
    viktory Posts: 7,635 Forumite
    sunnyone has issue's with me & I think you will find that she is the one that keeps bringing up my history seing as she keeps mentioning my 1st post which was over a year ago.

    Oh for goodness sake, grow up!! This is reminiscent of my children "She hit me first" If you stop responding to her, she'll stop posting about you. One of you has to be the bigger person.
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