Loans in my name..

Workdeskjunkie

Thank you so much for your replys!" I've since found she's been using people like quickquid & others on her email address & found she is also owing upto £800 & thats things I know about, but she doesn't know that I know.

My 18th birthday party was 3 days before my actual 18th birthday, but as soon as she tells me who it's with I'l pay it off so then I know that it's gone. Its the £300 one I'm really worried about as I have no idea where this has come from.

I've spoken to my dad about it, but he can't do anything at the moment as he works away but he has said he will sort it, as now it's started getting me stressed worrying about her.

UnderPressure

Workdeskjunkie wrote: »

Thank you so much for your replys!" I've since found she's been using people like quickquid & others on her email address & found she is also owing upto £800 & thats things I know about, but she doesn't know that I know.

My 18th birthday party was 3 days before my actual 18th birthday, but as soon as she tells me who it's with I'l pay it off so then I know that it's gone. Its the £300 one I'm really worried about as I have no idea where this has come from.

I've spoken to my dad about it, but he can't do anything at the moment as he works away but he has said he will sort it, as now it's started getting me stressed worrying about her.

WOW you have my sympathies you really do, if you cannot trust your own mum then it is a very sad state of affairs

You cant really go to the Police, I know what she has done is dispicable and she should never have done it but at then end of the day she is your mum still, and hopefully if you have a family meeting there may well be some circumstances as to why she did this, If it was me for one would feel a lot better knowing she had done this because she really needed the money rather than it being ftittered.

Your Dad will get to the bottom of it I am sure, dont worry too much about credit files etc and missed payments the likes of Provident dont usually bother with such things, not sure about quickquid but if your credit file is clear all should be well.

If you can pay them all off and let your mum that this is not acceptable and she should NEVER do such things in the future NO excuses, then maybe get her to pay you back at a small amount every week or month.

There is nothing worst than families sometimes, you seem to have your head screwed on the right way just make sure she knows how much this has upset you and also let her know that you will find it difficult to believe and trust her in the future....

Chin up you must feel terrible I hope it all works out for you