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Hi,

How much does everyone think is a nice amount to give to a friend for helping them move. ie, lifting heavy items such as sofas, fridge, bet etc in to a van.

Thanks, Chris
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  • Mini_Bear
    Mini_Bear Posts: 604 Forumite
    20 quid i reckon
  • missile
    missile Posts: 11,778 Forumite
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    Maybe nothing, some may feel insulted. I guess it depends on how much time and what you do for him in return?
    "A nation's greatness is measured by how it treats its weakest members." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
    Ride hard or stay home :iloveyou:
  • Wee_Willy_Harris
    Wee_Willy_Harris Posts: 7,512 Forumite
    How about a gift? A case of beer?
  • RabbitMad
    RabbitMad Posts: 2,069 Forumite
    I gave one guy a playstation steering wheel I no longer wanted and a bottle of vodka (years ago),

    The second time a case of wine.

    However I wouldn't expect anything if I was helping somebody, if they gave me something I would see it as a bonus.
  • scottishblondie
    scottishblondie Posts: 2,495 Forumite
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    I'd get them round and treat them to a takeaway and a few drinks, probably a bottle of something. If I'd helped a friend move I wouldn't really want money TBH.
  • bap98189
    bap98189 Posts: 3,801 Forumite
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    I would be a bit offended if one of my mates gave me cash for helping them move. A case of beer or some wine on the other hand would be gratefully received.

    Maybe it's just me, but I don't like friends giving me cash for helping out. Some sort of present is different though. Don't ask me why, it's one of those irrational things.
  • Judith_W
    Judith_W Posts: 754 Forumite
    I would say a jolly good slap-up meal afterwards - pizza and beers?
    Depends if they're/ you're skint or not
  • WestonDave
    WestonDave Posts: 5,154 Forumite
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    I would personally nip into a supermarket/offy and get a selection of nice beers (whether he's into lager or bitter there are usually some nice premium ones that you wouldn't buy for yourself) - shows a bit of thought, isn't embarrassingly "gifty" and if he feels so inclined you can share them.
    Adventure before Dementia!
  • princeofpounds
    princeofpounds Posts: 10,396 Forumite
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    Gift is probably better. You should probably spend an equivalent to minimum wage, so a couple of hours would mean a higher-end bottle of wine.
  • Niv
    Niv Posts: 2,563 Forumite
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    Like pretty much everyone else has said. Beer or wine is the best way to go. I dotn want my mates 'paying' me to help them move but a few beers or a bottle of wine is a nice 'thank you' gift.
    YNWA

    Target: Mortgage free by 58.
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