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Dealing with the JC and Anxiety

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  • wishface
    wishface Posts: 1,884 Forumite
    Surely you are the OP - why keep referring to yourself in the third person?

    Original Post. Not just original poster.
  • wishface
    wishface Posts: 1,884 Forumite
    dmg24 wrote: »
    I am not the one who appears to be trying to start an argument here. How is suggesting that you use Google asking you to discuss personal issues?

    What information have you found from Google, or is that too personal a question?

    I can only assume you are deliberately trying to troll at this point. The OP was perfectly clear and you are, at best, now being entirely disingenuous. I am not going to waste my time entertaining your sad behaviour by repeating what I originally asked.
  • wishface
    wishface Posts: 1,884 Forumite
    wishface, you have had some good advice considering that you are vague about what you require. Posters only ask for more information so that they can help to point you in the right direction.

    I can unerstand that you might not want to give details of your personal circumstances on a public forum, but this does restrict other posters in giving accurate information.

    You come across as confrontational when asked for more specific details, and you are, quite frankly, rude to some of the posters who are very helpful. But they cannot help you without knowing more.

    If you have anxiety issues, but do not wish to give more information in order to enable people to help you, may I suggest that you either continue to research websites yourself, or speak to your mental health specialist.

    What I asked was perfectly clear. It was a simple straightforward question; I am at a loss as to how you can think it vague. I am also at a loss as to why the right wingers that proliferate this forum sight see fit to spoil any thread they appear on, as they have done many many times before.
  • dmg24
    dmg24 Posts: 33,920 Forumite
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    wishface wrote: »
    I can only assume you are deliberately trying to troll at this point. The OP was perfectly clear and you are, at best, now being entirely disingenuous. I am not going to waste my time entertaining your sad behaviour by repeating what I originally asked.

    So you have not bothered to try to find some answers for yourself from Google, or referred to richard9991's link?
    wishface wrote: »
    What I asked was perfectly clear. It was a simple straightforward question; I am at a loss as to how you can think it vague. I am also at a loss as to why the right wingers that proliferate this forum sight see fit to spoil any thread they appear on, as they have done many many times before.

    You are very rude. I am at a complete loss as to why you continue to post on this forum if you find it so offensive?
    Gone ... or have I?
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    wishface wrote: »
    I am also at a loss as to why the right wingers that proliferate this forum sight see fit to spoil any thread they appear on, as they have done many many times before.

    RIGHT WINGERS!! What right wingers?
  • dmg24
    dmg24 Posts: 33,920 Forumite
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    RIGHT WINGERS!! What right wingers?

    I think I would rather be called a troll! ;)
    Gone ... or have I?
  • healy
    healy Posts: 5,292 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    edited 8 May 2010 at 5:13PM
    wishface wrote: »
    But that was not what I asked. I have no idea what you are trying to prove. If you don't have an answer to the OP, then why are you responding? I didn't ask for instructions on how to use google, I asked a very specific question: do people know of any specific websites. I have already tried search engines. I have no idea what you are trying to gain with this line of inquiry other than to wind me up and then point and laugh when I respond. This is expressly why I didn't want to discuss personal issues and yet that point is being completely ignored.

    I am not trying to prove anything.

    I am responding to point out that you have not been bullied in any way. I was trying to be helpful and I am sure if you take a little time you would find something via a search engine. I am not trying to gain anything and have not made any inquiries and I am not trying to wind you up or laugh at you. I have not asked you to discuss your "issues". I really cannot see where you are getting all this from.
  • Amistoso_2
    Amistoso_2 Posts: 1,216 Forumite
    obviously spoiling for arguments OP, people on here have tried to get you to give a bit more info so they can help, not because they are being nosey or judgemental.
    If you can't interact with people without finding fault in everything they say then perhaps a forum isn't the place for you to seek help...
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    dmg24 wrote: »
    I think I would rather be called a troll! ;)

    I've never been so insulted!




    (Well, hardly ever:rotfl:)
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    edited 8 May 2010 at 5:25PM
    OP (!) wouldn't it have been much simpler to have said

    "I suffer from depression/anxiety/bipolar/etc and I wonder if anybody could help me with signing on/claiming JSA/going for interviews/etc.

    Then you would have been offered all the help you needed.
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