From Trash to Cash: Dribbling a river

cagneuk

nikki, really sorry to here about your situation. I used to be the spender, and it was so hard to give up control. Eventually I saw the light and now get all my wages into my oh's account and we budget everything. but it still hurts sometimes as I still get the urge to spend and I feel as if I'm being punished as it's my money. But the fact is, my money is not my money but money for my family and they are what really matters more than my material desires.
Now, even after all my debt and heartache I've caused due to my spending I still find it difficult to not have money in my pocket and still want what I know I can't have but luckily I'm able to control it a little better. And even sometimes, when I do get money for myself (birthday's etc) I am starting to feel a little guilty about spending it on myself.
I just hope your OH will see their mistakes before it's too late

elly68

cheers cagne that 5 hrs might get you another 50 lol right my guess is £361 lets see who gets closest

cagneuk

sorry for the triple post but just before I leave work for the weekend I was sent an email with a link about SEO myths.
thought I'd share it with you.
http://searchengineland.com/36-seo-myths-that-wont-die-but-need-to-40076

elly68

nikki are you taking mortgage together if so he is going to have to realise where his wages are supposed to go not where he wants them to go be patient it has taken me until 41 lol

mambury

Nikki.... we have a jiont account but also our own individual accounts. All the bills etc get paid out of the joint, then we each get 'pocket money' for the month (£80 each) to spend as we see fit. That way OH still has control over some of his own money but if he spends it all in one week then its toughand the bills etc are still covered! He is RUBBISH with money so I do all the finance in this house....

Oh, and I have another account for housekeeping too. A bit old fashioned but it works.

Off to the PO then beavers... see you all later!

jo70mo

we have joint account too. and get pocket money into our own accounts. at moment its £40 each for the month.
Jo x

Amber_Sunshine

Bog off spammer.

Poosmate

Well that was a waste of a couple of hours of my life!

The Totesport thing looks like it's impossible to gain anything from it. I just checked out the gambling loophole's board and have now got my eyes well and truly opened with these "free bet" things!

Oh well, I guess as I've learned something it's not a complete waste of my time.

Cagne, congrats on the bike and I'm sure the time will fly by.

See you all later,

Poo

Amber_Sunshine

Don't fret about age, Rosie, 60 is nothing these days. Older people are cool in my book and often nowhere near as staid as they're made out to be. Like Mabel, I swear my mum has a better social life than I do, and at 78 she shows no signs of slowing down.

Saucy, you know where I am if you need to talk. Cry if you need to, we love our pets as part of our family.

elly68

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emm dont know if anyone has quick contact thought might help