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The cutting out/cutting down alcohol thread (part 7)

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  • brokepaolo wrote: »
    I'm more of a Burger King man myself. In fact, I might have one for lunch today.

    OOOH Onion rings, and that aberdeen angus burger, or as per McDs really anything on the menu is fine:D
    :):)
  • Marru wrote: »
    Mr S meatballs and spaghetti in tomato sauce ;)

    Sounds very healthy though.......:D
    :):)
  • DEBTMONKEY1A
    DEBTMONKEY1A Posts: 1,496 Forumite
    Morning all! Well another night with booze last night...deffo none tonight & I SO WANT to acheive my 15 day AF target this month!!! Also I get very depressed/down when I drink & it worries G/F...so GONNA START TODAY!

    Brokepaulo-glad its all making more sense now....don't forget there is a waiting list at the courts so I'd be inclined to check what this is & book it NOW-you can laways cancel....I think you don't pay the fees until later but I could be wrong...anyways worth checking with your local county court the time scale. Your friend is correct-add in as much as you can so that 'on paper' theres less than £100 a month left-thats why I mentioned making full use (& finding out the maximum figures the receiver allows-see my link from yesterday for what I put down)..don't forget things like satelite tv/gym membership are not classed as 'essential' so hide these in other figures (!!!)...Agree the changing your own habits bit IS HARD re: spending...but just think-new flat..job etc...it's all good...maximum 1 year-if clear cut you may get an early discharge (this is never guaranteed but very possible) as soon as SIX months...so in ONE YEAR max it'll all be sorted!

    Sim....obviously on forums people will disagree on stuff & I don't mean to be blunt here but why the obsession with the money shop loan? Why let your G/F waste her money? What makes this debt more important than the others?? NOTHING. Also yes you are right if the A&L a/c is not a creditor then it does not have to be listed...BUT if you are bankrupt A&L may well pick it up on a credit search (many banks are permanently linked to the credit reference agencies & anything like BR may well be picked up on very soon)...also forget having a cheque guarantee card/standard debit card/overdraft-once the bank finds out these will be gone. Its not the receiver that closes the banks-its the banks decision. I had to bring all my bank cards etc to the receivers office....certainly if you have a guarantee card the receiver will want that if ytou've been using payday loans etc...

    You mention it's a 'proper' bank a/c? The only difference with the co-op bank you have is no cheque book/overdraft facility...SO WHAT??!

    I think the hassle factor of keeping it & them probably finding out is too much stress... but to be sure as Simon on the oher forum-he'll know 100% what will happen!

    Am SO GLAD that you & brokepaulo are a lot clearer on things & again sorry if I sound blunt....(!)

    RIGHT-really need to start the AF bandwagon rolling....might go for a jog at my 'urge' time....really bad-not been to the gym for 5 weeks!!!
  • Wanna_Bee_Free
    Wanna_Bee_Free Posts: 2,357 Forumite
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    Mmmm, Burger King, I love Aberdeen Angus ones too. Yum!

    Dotstar, welcome back and congratulations on the new arrival! Well done on deciding to nip things in the bud, and good luck for next week.

    Kevin, good luck with your moderation plan!

    I'm feeling sooo much better today than yesterday. What a bad thing hangovers are. I will try and come on after work during bell time to get myself to stay strong. Sunshine and Fridays are a bad combo!!

    Hope you're all having a good day! I never thought I'd say this but I miss Shaggy's corny pictures to start us off each day - hope you're having a good holiday Shaggy doo!!
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    edited 2 July 2010 at 2:04PM
    THE number of alcoholics in England has increased by a quarter amid
    ‘woefully inadequate’ support to help them quit drinking, according to
    a new report. The number of drinkers either moderately or severely
    dependent on alcohol now stands at 1.6million after a rise of 24 per cent
    between 2000 and 2007, Alcohol Concern said.And the burden to taxpayers
    could soon hit almost £4billion without urgent action, it added.

    :hello:

    Mustn't dwell.....

    eta: could you add me as a 'no target' for July please :o

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • DEBTMONKEY1A
    DEBTMONKEY1A Posts: 1,496 Forumite
    Hi mate...PM'D this as well-didn't know which would reach you more quickly...(!)

    under the freedom of imformation act (love it) you have access to the Official Receivers Manual.......

    http://www.insolvency.gov.uk/freedomofinformation/technical/TechnicalManual/Ch25-36/Chapter31/part7/part2/part_2.htm

    Go down to section 31.7.19 & read-on...very interesting...the aim is of course to get below £100 disposable income 'on paper'...;)...dental treatment....dry cleaning of your chefs whites...(!)...I'm sure you get my drift!

    Happy reading (!)
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Here we go!!!!!!!!!!

    July Summer AFD Challenge


    Can I ask when you post your scores to make them large, bold and in colour to make it easier to track through the posts

    Miss P 31 :starmod:
    December Baby 10
    Jo TF
    YM TF
    Sparkles 31 :starmod: :starmod:
    Marru 31 :starmod:
    69chick 20
    maman TF
    SSG 20 :starmod:
    NRA 10 :starmod:
    Peedie 30 :starmod:
    DM1A 15
    Lurkio TF
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • Marru
    Marru Posts: 4,126 Forumite
    No 2 please Sparkles.

    I have decided to stop my job search and stay put for at least another year. BF might not be happy when I break the news when I see him next time but I really need to get myself sorted before I can consider us moving together. Off to make an action plan to my diary - ciao...
    "Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, it's not the end."

  • Lurkio wrote: »
    :hello:

    Mustn't dwell.....

    eta: could you add me as a 'no target' for July please :o

    Hey Lurkio :hello:

    Glad you are back:D

    xx
    :):)
  • Marru wrote: »
    No 2 please Sparkles.

    I have decided to stop my job search and stay put for at least another year. BF might not be happy when I break the news when I see him next time but I really need to get myself sorted before I can consider us moving together. Off to make an action plan to my diary - ciao...


    Hi Marru

    It's your decision at the end of the day:o

    Well done on day 2

    Good Luck

    XX
    :):)
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