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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,822 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Can you speak to people at breathing space or similar elfen?
    You have been so much more on top of things recently & havent come across as wanting to self harm.
    What has happenned to change how you feel?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    your not a failure Elfen!! look at you commitment to loosing weight and your dedication to your exercise?

    every year i say that i'm going to stop biting my nails, but they are still uggly looking, can never do it.

    were all different and you can't really define "normal"
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  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    blimey, I've just realised I knew one of the 2 people killed in a light aircraft crash a couple of days ago..........didn't know him really well, but blimey...
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,822 Ambassador
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    elfen~I have to say that I am really concerned for you at the mo.
    I have worked in a MH capacity with people with severe self harm issues & you are scoring very highly at the mo as Im sure you know.
    Does pint know how you feel?
    Is there a 24 hours MH team where you are?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • scaredy_cat
    scaredy_cat Posts: 7,758 Forumite
    elfen, if you can't talk to anyone in rl, please talk to the samaritans.
    Cats don't have owners - they have staff!! :D:p
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  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    beanielou wrote: »
    elfen~I have to say that I am really concerned for you at the mo.
    I have worked in a MH capacity with people with severe self harm issues & you are scoring very highly at the mo as Im sure you know.
    Does pint know how you feel?
    Is there a 24 hours MH team where you are?

    I'm getting worried too, I've never heard her speak like this before
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,822 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Claire~I just bite my thumb nails now!
    Have you changed your ebay?
    Cant see anything under your user ID?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    Kerry - please let us know you are ok.
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    beanielou wrote: »
    Claire~I just bite my thumb nails now!
    Have you changed your ebay?
    Cant see anything under your user ID?


    sorry yes its all listed on my private account will send you a link in a private message
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,822 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Thanks Claire.

    Elfen~Please let us know you are ok?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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