Seller not returning my messages

emby

hermum wrote: »

I would rather call them first as I certainly don't want to be opening disputes if I can help it, so far they haven't dealt with me at all.
They sold another item the same day as the lot I won & that has already been collected & feedback left for them from the buyer.
If they don't wish to sell at the price it went for then I would rather they let me know.
Hopefully ebay will hurry up with the contact details, I thought that I would have received them quite quickly.

That's what i said.

emby

hermum wrote: »

I strongly suggest you actually read fully the posts before deciding that I'm a pos trouble maker, (interested to know what pos actually means), if you're unable to do that then please do not respond to my questions.
You have either not read it properly or not grasped the information within it & also made an awful lot of assumptions.
I would not be wanting cash on delivery , as I am the buyer, so would not have bid on my own item, that is of course illegal as several posts this week have pointed out a recent court case involving shill bidding.
I was asking the seller whether they would prefer cash on collection, as most sellers do of course prefer that, as a seller myself I certainly encourage it. The seller didn't respond, I asked again, still no response.
That's when I paid by Paypal, on the fourth day so that the seller couldn't report me as a NPB.
I then messaged again to say that if they preferred cash on collection, I would be happy to do this & they could refund the Paypal payment, also asked for a suitable collection time.
I am now waiting for their details from ebay so that I can give them a call, this is 6 days after winning the item.
I fail to see how that could be construed as pos? trouble making.

pos = possible.

hermum

emby wrote: »

That's what i said.

I know & I was agreeing