MSE Pregnancy Club 18

Bufger

We're here MGEB

I know its not much help but we're all thinking of you! Sounds like your OH is very understanding and helpful which is a great start to it all at least! I havent done anything stupid yet today otherwise i'd tell you about it and cheer you up - its only a matter of time though so stay tuned

Play Bejewled blitz on FB, that always keeps my mind off everything!

**confuzzled**

MGEB you poor thing, obviously bubs is too comfy in there:D But like Bufger says, we're here, we'll keep you entertained, at least I will, I bored stupid! Not alot of work to do and what there is to do is mind numbing stuff:o

Anyhoo, saw Saz's ticker on another thread and got ticker envy so relieve the boredom I did a pg one:D
Here it is ......


Think I blinked for too long and missed a week or so, amazing how it takes AGES to get to 12wks and after that it flies:eek::D

my_gorgeous_ellie-belle

Thank you hun!

Worst thing is i'm starting to feel like i don't even want to meet bubs anymore

I know that sounds really horrible but i just really don't want to be doing this anymore. Bit late now obviously!

I am so fed up of this dragged out early labour. I have just had a million and one problems this time around, spent a good third of it in hosp right from the get go, nothing like with DD, she was lovely and straight forward for me.

Even hubby has said no more unless we go down adoption route - kind of makes me feel like bit of a failure. I know he doesn't mean it that way, he just hates to see me like this.

**confuzzled**

Ohhhh honey, I'm sure its just the pain and tiredness talking:) And we all know that boys are a HUGE PIA:p:D You'll forget all about it once he decides to show up:D and I can understand your DH not wanting to do it again but thats just coz he loves you so much he doesn't like to see you in pain, must be hard for them coz there's naff all they can do!!! He'll probs change his tune in a few months;):)

Now I suggest to get him moving to do plenty of these:j:j:j:j:j:j I'm sure it's worked for others in the past

Courgette

MGEB, sorry things are dragging

Well, the dr has signed me off for 4 weeks initially then see how we are with the SPD. I thought I'd feel relieved but I actually feel soooooooo guilty; my students are about to do their exams and me going now puts a real strain on the department I'm only human and I just couldn't cope with the pain anymore but I wish I just didn't feel so bad

Bufger

my_gorgeous_ellie-belle wrote: »

Thank you hun!

Worst thing is i'm starting to feel like i don't even want to meet bubs anymore

I know that sounds really horrible but i just really don't want to be doing this anymore. Bit late now obviously!

I am so fed up of this dragged out early labour. I have just had a million and one problems this time around, spent a good third of it in hosp right from the get go, nothing like with DD, she was lovely and straight forward for me.

Even hubby has said no more unless we go down adoption route - kind of makes me feel like bit of a failure. I know he doesn't mean it that way, he just hates to see me like this.

Everytime you feel like that just put it into perspective. Some people cant get on the boat nevermind sail full term but it is natural to regret the decision at some point along the way, especially when its painful and goes ONNNNN and ONNNNN. You need to keep yourself occupied some how and know that your feelings will change as soon as your baby arrives. You'll forget all; about this!

If you dont think you can go through it all again then dont, there is no failure unless you're going for a guiness world record for the number of babies. 2 is the perfect number in my opinion. With 3 you get a 3rd child envy and with 4+ you're just poor for life! (but rich in family of course).

Do you have people to ring and moan too? your welcome to spam my facebook or PM if you need to unload your worries.

SazM030306

Big massive hugs to you MGEB it must be so hard waiting and waiting! You will be so relieved and happy when bubs finally makes an appearance that this part will all be pushed right to the back of your mind
Try to do something that you enjoy, if possible, like read a good book, watch your fave film, eat cake or just stay on here, chatting and window shopping

I hope things start to get going a bit quicker very soon xxxxxxxx

my_gorgeous_ellie-belle

Aw thanks ladies...and Bufger (you made me giggle) - i know i'll be fine once things get going properly. Just had enough of being ready when the truth is i'll prob go overdue....if it hadn't been for the hosp telling me from 30-ish weeks to expect a preemie i'd have prob been fine. That stupid test coming back positive saying i was in early labour way back then doomed me to be miserable i think.

Can't seem to do starjumps coz they blimmin hurt my pelvis but i'm gonna go do some more cleaning... and take full advantage of all the stairs in the house some more. Might even do some ebaying and make some money as we have spent a fortune this month already.

CAFC - i like your hair short....i say short but wait till after baby is born I went from really long hair to pixie crop after DD, big change but i loved it - then went platinum blonde a while later but that was too high maintanence (even though i only changed back to dark just after xmas this year, 3 years on). I love short hair though so i'm biased, lol!

Bufger

Thats the spirit!

Just think, it could always be worse. You could be a fat guy dressed as a gnome being heckled by 500 kids :-)

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v2617/12/85/263900330/n263900330_1421424_8019568.jpg

my_gorgeous_ellie-belle

Lol so true - i can visualise it but can't actually see it (i got blocked )