From Trash to Cash: the Dribbling never ends

munchki

when I can be asked to go and look for it in the laptop case I will do LOL

yes emma, I may just make you!! *smirk*

Will do in a few mins...hehe

MummyandPaige

But its REALLY small and there is sooooo much carp everywhere it is going to take me forever to find it

Thanks Toots, was afraid they would go mouldy like the sweetcorn I tried to grow a few years ago

jo70mo

Toots thanks so much for your thoughtful post.
Think there are some feelings about work but don't think its jealousy with DH but maybe a bit of guilt that he manages so well when I am at work and got quite a bit done in house but I don't manage that when he's at work to the same extent.
but it is new to him and he was only having to maintain it for a couple of weeks so he could give it more than I can I guess. I have to pace myself more. or at least thats my excuse LOL.
very true that I have to recognise the feelings before I can work on them too.
thanks for the tip about the debt free board too.
Jo x

jo70mo

and the last thing our MandP needs now is more tidying to find her phone!!!

munchki

LOL, good grief I am getting it from every angle about the dongle, here and in msn........ok ok I will go look in a min. PROMISE

moneymabel

Youre welcome Toots :-) just glad everybodys parcels turned up!

Cagne you just made me lol with the comment about the dongle!

Off to bed- need to get up early as got a courier coming sometime between 7am and 7pm tomorrow....bit more specific would have been nice but wasn't paying four quid extra for morning or afternoon!
Night all - sweet dreams :-)

Crafty_Toots

jo70mo wrote: »

Toots thanks so much for your thoughtful post.
Think there are some feelings about work but don't think its jealousy with DH but maybe a bit of guilt that he manages so well when I am at work and got quite a bit done in house but I don't manage that when he's at work to the same extent.
but it is new to him and he was only having to maintain it for a couple of weeks so he could give it more than I can I guess. I have to pace myself more. or at least thats my excuse LOL.
very true that I have to recognise the feelings before I can work on them too.
thanks for the tip about the debt free board too.
Jo x

When I read my post back I had a sudden panic that I'd been rather blunt, and I was worried you'd feel that, so sorry if I hurt you in any way. You're right about OH managing on a temporary basis though, and I suspect that while he might have done a good job of keeping on top of things, there are still things that weren't done but would have been if roles had been reversed. It was a novelty for him - I don't mean that his time at home was trivial, just that it was new to him for a while so not oppressive to have to keep house etc. Not sure I'm making myself clear hun, but please give yourself a little break and stop expecting so much of yourself. You give so much to us here, you need to give to yourself a little.

Huge hugs, always here for you *hug*

Toots x

Crafty_Toots

Night night sleep tight Mabel x Have sweet dreams!

Toots x

jo70mo

we planted beans and courgettes this evening.
Potatoes went in a few days ago.
DD loving it too. DS less impressed this year.
We have just started reading the moomintrolls. what beautiful writing. kids played lego and I read it to them. they loved it. especially DS.
Jo x

jo70mo

Toots you didn't hurt me in anyway at all. Thanks for the hugs. and helping me think things through.