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*** Wednesday 31st March Daily Chat - where has this month gone?***
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Speak what you want to say out loud to yourself. It'll help you retain it better. make notes and stick to them too. :grouphug:
Have any evidence clearly noted and to hand
Don't let her sidetrack it. Just calmly say 'Let me finish what I have to say then you can respond to the whole'
And I really think even a 15mins with the other party to the meeting is a good idea.
Ask her to email you and her boss a summary of her understanding of the meeting so that you can see whether she has taken away the messages you wanted to give. Crossed wires are not helpful, particularly if she is going to feel defensive,and evidence may be needed for HR down the line. By getting her version of the meeting you are avoiding future pitfalls of the 'that's not what was said' variety. Ideally all three of you should document your experience of the meeting...
And if all else fails me and Spud will come get her while we do Snaggs' Permatan Plank:D
That bit:rotfl:26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%SPC 2019 #073
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The girl kittens a bit of a bruiser, she just bulldozed her way to the food, she started out behind the cat with the boys in front but she got there first!Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.0
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yes thanks - got that! lol0
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Right, I'm logging off. Hope it all goes well tomorrow Judi. It'll be a tough meeting but you are doing it for the right reasons x26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%SPC 2019 #073
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Thanks - I'm sure it will be ok - she cancelled the last one - but we need to get it sorted - not looking forward to it but i will be more annoyed if she cancels again!! I just need to stay calm and not do what she does and loose it!
will update tomorrow - unless i am in jail of course!0 -
unless i am in jail of course!
Just tell her you know some people who will make her life a misery :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%SPC 2019 #073
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Will do!!! good luck with the job tomorrow0
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i'm home..... at last!!!Cats don't have owners - they have staff!!
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*just retrieved some dropped cake from down her bra and also found some hay.....*
Well I am glad we are all proepared commit murder and mayhem for each other Proper friends! xxxxNevertheless she persisted.0
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