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Mission:Control - MinnieSpender's DFW diary

You know that it isn't real
You'll disappear in a black hole
You know that it isn't real
Floating out of control ... Oh Wow*

Hello chaps and chappettes

Having read many of the debt diaries, I thought it might be time to taketh the bull by the horns (strong words for someone who dislikes blood sports) and join in.

"Forsooth!" I hear you cry. "Why now?"

Because, my lovely chums, I'm heading for an almost landmark birthday. I will soon hit 39 and I would so love to be debt free by my 40th. Never mind the life-beginning B-day - this one is frightening the bejasus out of me. You know what "society" says about being all grown-up and sorted out in your 30s? Well, for various reasons that didn't happen for me. Illness, awkward choices and bad luck got in the way. But I found you lot earlier this year and I've already made great strides. I want to be at least solvent by the time I'm officially middle-aged (:eek:). Being settled into a career, meeting the man of my dreams and living happily ever after will have to wait.

I'll unfold over the coming months. I'll try to be honest, upbeat and optimistic. I'll even chuck in a song of the day to really annoy everyone.

In the meantime, wish me luck because I'm scared.
*It Overtakes Me - The Flaming Lips
:eek: What if the hokey cokey is what it's all about? :eek:
Official "Bring back Mark and Lard NOW! or else (please)" Member 16
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    In the meantime, wish me luck because I'm scared.

    Good luck - and there is no reason to be scared. :grouphug:

    It's not like you've been a passenger in my car. Then you've a reason... :rotfl:
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • MinnieSpender
    MinnieSpender Posts: 2,975 Forumite
    Those Dutch mountains must play havoc with your steering and brakes, though.
    :eek: What if the hokey cokey is what it's all about? :eek:
    Official "Bring back Mark and Lard NOW! or else (please)" Member 16
  • Iriahm
    Iriahm Posts: 159 Forumite
    i'm already looking forward to the next installment of your diary! mine is boring as h3ll - i was born a reader not a writer!

    XxX
    Lightbulb moment: July 2006

    Total debt: £39,678.01 July 2006 :eek: Total Debt: £19k March 2007

    Proud to be DFW Nerd 123 :cool:
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Those Dutch mountains must play havoc with your steering and brakes, though.

    I find my hands play havoc with my steering.

    Well, you've been subscribed to (I've loads of diaries because...well just because) Are you going to start with what happened today or are you waiting until tomorrow?
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • cmjohnson_86
    cmjohnson_86 Posts: 1,468 Forumite
    Once again Minnie, dont be scared. Your in good hands here.. I look forward to reading your diary. Good Luck.
  • MinnieSpender
    MinnieSpender Posts: 2,975 Forumite
    Iriahm wrote:
    i'm already looking forward to the next installment of your diary! mine is boring as h3ll - i was born a reader not a writer!

    XxX

    Not at all! I've just read through yours and it's great. Loads of good advice there too.

    I think this is a way to stay motivated.
    :eek: What if the hokey cokey is what it's all about? :eek:
    Official "Bring back Mark and Lard NOW! or else (please)" Member 16
  • MinnieSpender
    MinnieSpender Posts: 2,975 Forumite
    ZTD wrote:
    Are you going to start with what happened today or are you waiting until tomorrow?

    Hey ho, no time like the present (and I do like presents. PM me if you'd like to send me one!)

    After a hellish time in my last job, I packed my spotted hankie, hoisted it onto a stick and I upped and offed. Since then it's been Interview Central.

    I've been offered a few jobs but have turned them down because the feeling wasn't right. Yesterday I was offered a second interview with a company (but they're slow and haven't given me a date yet). Today I went for another interview - and boy are they keen! Second interview with them tomorrow with a possibility to start on Monday! But I've got nothing to wear! I've already impressed them with my satorial elegance today - I can't possibly pull that off two days in a row!

    What to do, though? If I like it do I say yes? Or should I wait for the slow people to get a wiggle on while hanging about aimlessly? Then there's the other company who are "thinking about me". Bless. How sweet of them. Get on with it!

    Ho hum. Choice is a terrible thing!
    :eek: What if the hokey cokey is what it's all about? :eek:
    Official "Bring back Mark and Lard NOW! or else (please)" Member 16
  • Hey Minnie

    Looking forward to reading your diary!

    It sounds like you are doing really well and I'm waiting for that invitation to your debt free 40th birthday party!

    Good luck for the second interview tomorrow - can you just change your top/skirt (if you are in a suit)? If you look smart, they won't notice.

    Love

    scottishspendaholic x
    MBNA = £4,000 / Next = £925 (approx. tbc on 19/8)
    Tesco = £2,910.11 / Smile overdraft = £500
    Bank of Scotland = £2,782.83
  • MinnieSpender
    MinnieSpender Posts: 2,975 Forumite
    Good luck for the second interview tomorrow - can you just change your top/skirt (if you are in a suit)? If you look smart, they won't notice.

    Does a bathing suit count? Would they notice?

    Perhaps if I wore high heels and pearls with it?
    :eek: What if the hokey cokey is what it's all about? :eek:
    Official "Bring back Mark and Lard NOW! or else (please)" Member 16
  • kathfisch
    kathfisch Posts: 3,042 Forumite
    :rotfl: I'm laughing already, this thread is gonna do wonders for my stomach muscles (perhaps less so for my computer if I persist in drinking while reading!!!) :rotfl:

    Yippee :j Another diary to add to my list of subscriptions :D , I'm looking forward to your installments already!!

    Its a hard question about the jobs really, not sure what I'd do. I guess, though, if this place seems nice then its might be worth going for it, if only because you could be waiting for ever for the other people. I'm a firm believer in following your instinct, when decision time comes I'm sure you'll know what to do!
    Don't stress, relax, let life roll off your backs. Except for death and paying taxes, everything in life is only for now... Avenue Q
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 003 :DProud to have become debt free... and striving to keep it that way
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