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  • missmontana
    missmontana Posts: 1,994 Forumite
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    Is there any way you can apply for HB/LHA to help you pay the rent?
    Be who you are, say what you feel, those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.
    They say that talking to yourself is a sign of mental illness. So I talk to the cats instead.
  • missmontana
    missmontana Posts: 1,994 Forumite
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    Is there any chance you will have the opportunity to meet your son and have a relationship with him?

    sorry about all the questions, just trying to help!
    Be who you are, say what you feel, those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.
    They say that talking to yourself is a sign of mental illness. So I talk to the cats instead.
  • ive already tried that and to no avail .
  • yeah i would go for that trying to have relationship but how? he lives fair distance from where i live and couldnt afford to travel there. Also csa have told me that me that it cant be sorted out between the 2 of us as his mum regrets informing child support agency because of the amount of money theree taking and fact its gonna make me homless so were all losers me daughter son and hs mum as she will onlt seeing a percentage of it as she doesnt work
  • Kimitatsu
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    What you need to do is get your daughters mother to apply for maintenance through the CSA, then you will have a liability of 20% for two children that is split equally between the two. So on a net salary of £200 then you would be paying out £40 a week for the two, and each parent would get £20.

    You can ask the CSA to give you longer to pay your arrears as it will cause you considerable financial hardship, and they can award youup to 2 years to pay the debt back.

    You can also speak to the DWP and ask them to reduce the payments out for your Dads funeral - again if it will cause you hardship then they can do that.

    Good luck.
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  • the loan isnt from dwp its from work and how can i get my daughters mum to claim csa against me when im going for custody of my daughter ?? and i have daughter half the week and pay for all her clothes food etc ?
  • missmontana
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    I would see if you can come to some sort of arrangement with your sons mother then if she feels bad about how much money they are trying to take from you. She can close the CSA claim and you can have a private arrangement between yourselves.
    There is a full disregard from april 12th on child maintenance, so the mothers will see every penny of however much you give them.
    maybe you could arrange to meet half way with your son and his mother? Obviously it'd take a while to get to know him and I'm sure she'd want to be there.
    Be who you are, say what you feel, those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.
    They say that talking to yourself is a sign of mental illness. So I talk to the cats instead.
  • Welcome to the realities of the CSA mate,they dont give a hoot,you could end up living in a ditch,and thats fine by them,as long as your paying up....
    As for "protected income" what a joke that is,work hard all week to be rewarded with a benefit level of income from your money.
    You have my sympathy fella.Its a rotten position to be in.
  • Ig you are having a child 50% of the time then you should be paying a lower percentage to that mother.
    Quite how they would work it is intreaguing, but I'd have said
    take 20% of the wage - £40
    Divide by 2 £20 each
    reduce 1 by 50% to cover your nights with that child so a total payout of £30 a week.

    With your out goings are you not entitled to any benefits such as housing benefit, child tax credit, working tax credit etc
    :beer: I've paid the CSA off and stopped them taking payments:beer:
    I'm stillowed some arrears by my ex :mad:

    I was a NRP, now I'm a PWC, partner of a PWC, and parent of a PWC ( and very confused at times )
  • DX2
    DX2 Posts: 8,275 Forumite
    Ig you are having a child 50% of the time then you should be paying a lower percentage to that mother.
    Quite how they would work it is intreaguing, but I'd have said
    take 20% of the wage - £40
    Divide by 2 £20 each
    reduce 1 by 50% to cover your nights with that child so a total payout of £30 a week.

    With your out goings are you not entitled to any benefits such as housing benefit, child tax credit, working tax credit etc
    For the CSA to take his daughter into consideration it would be far better if the OP and PWC went via them rather than a private agreement, from what I gather fom the OP's posts in this thread he is not eligible to claim the above benefits as the PWC gets these already and only one parent is eligible to claim.
    *SIGH*
    :D
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