Trying to pluck up the courage

wanttobedebtfreenatty

Thanks Georgia for the offer. I have an air bed, which I have just remember that I have. Will need to see if it is still OK, but I am sure that we can sleep on that and the in laws can have our bed.

thanks everyone for all the kind words

LittleL_4

Hi, I phoned cccs this afternoon and I feel so much better, they really put you at ease. The girl I spoke to was lovely as I'm sure they all are.

Honestly if you're struggling then seek the help, it's there.

Good Luck

x

MrsTinks

Chin up hunni
The suit situation isn't the end of the world, the wedding pressie can be fixed with pictures and something that might take a little time but cost next to nothing Call CCCS and talk to them, get the burden lifted off your shoulders so you can straighten up and see further ahead than you can when you're weighed down with your worries.

The bed situation can be sorted with the airbed for now and with extra income etc as of end of august then you're on the way

You can do it!

Annie_Fanny

wanttobedebtfreenatty wrote:

Thanks Georgia for the offer. I have an air bed, which I have just remember that I have. Will need to see if it is still OK, but I am sure that we can sleep on that and the in laws can have our bed.

If it is not ok they are selling them in ASDA for about £12. They have really come down in price over recent years! I am so full of interesting facts!

Floss

For a really special pressie, do you have a digital camera, or can you borrow one? if so, take lots of "off the cuff" photo's during the day (bride getting ready, groom looking nervous as he waits, mums crying, dads speeching, relatives & friends enjoying the occasion, chatting & having fun....then put them all onto a CD and give it to them when they get home from honeymoon.

Then they can choose which they like the best, and if you're able, you can get them printed up & put them in an album.....its a relatively cheap & memorable gift, lots of pics that they would have missed.

oakdale_minx

Hi - I've got a double air bed you can have if you want - it's still in the box, it was a freeby from a catalogue. PM me if you'd like it (you can keep it , no worries, it's only sitting in a box here)

LookingAhead

That's so sweet of you oakdale_minx.

I love it when DFW'ers pull together with practical help! :money:

Dr.Shoe_2

Don't worry! CCCS are the tops, the don't patronise nor judge- they are there to help.

loobyloo1980

What a shame about the wedding suit. Has everyone in the wedding party paid for their own suit? It's just when I got married last year we hired the suits and paid for them as a package and got a reduction. I also know that Greenwoods, Debenhams and Burtons use exactly the same supplier, but that Greenwoods are the cheapest if that helps. A bit unfair to ask people to wear something specific, and then expect them to pay for it though.

HenryWeston

Floss wrote:

For a really special pressie, do you have a digital camera, or can you borrow one? if so, take lots of "off the cuff" photo's during the day (bride getting ready, groom looking nervous as he waits, mums crying, dads speeching, relatives & friends enjoying the occasion, chatting & having fun....then put them all onto a CD and give it to them when they get home from honeymoon.

Then they can choose which they like the best, and if you're able, you can get them printed up & put them in an album.....its a relatively cheap & memorable gift, lots of pics that they would have missed.

my sister did a similar thing with family pictures, a really good idea:T