Personal Grooming - pubic hair trimming?

fayhare

I like my men hairy and would rather they stayed natural to be honest. My OH is happy with that but if he wanted to trim then I would be fine with it, but not totally off or very short which would be a total turn off for me.

I think we have been conditioned that hair is dirty and that the prepubescent look is the only acceptable way which I find slightly creepy.

flippin36

I don't think I would like it if my OH did anything like that. I would be very suspicious Lol! I like men to be a bit on the hairy side (but not too much), and certainly not to take longer to get ready than me!

In fact I find all male grooming to be a bit of a turn off altogether.

iamana1ias

BitterAndTwisted wrote: »

I do shave under my arms and my legs but usually only in the summer as no-one sees those parts the rest of the time so I don't see the point. Why the Bible-bashing accusation? To my knowledge that book has nothing to say about removing or trimming pubic hair

Your "God gave us" comment. We evolved from apes, hence we have hair . As adult humans we have the free choice to remove some or all of it.

Don't knock it till you've tried it

tara747

peachespeaches wrote: »

Leave it. Dont trim it unless you get into a relationship where the woman suggests you do it as thats how she likes it. Different people like different things. I prefer men to be as nature intended.

I must agree! I would be freaked out if OH did this, especially without telling me first!!!

BitterAndTwisted wrote: »

I may be in a minority of one here but I just don't understand why anyone would find what God gave us unappealing. I might be an aged old bag with my preferences belonging back in the Ark but if I saw a man with his nether regions trimmed I'd be wondering if he was either watching too much porno or appearing in them.

I could understand the need for total bareness in a woman if she was appearing in public in a high-cut thong 24/7 but whipping the lot off has weird echoes of prepubescence which I find vaguely unsavoury. I'm completely disconcerted by rather a lot of American men who find unshaven ladies repulsive. Now that's just weird.

I've been known to have a bit of a "tidy up" if I'm going on a beach holiday but that's it. Not that anyone's seen my lady-parts since before the Flood and I doubt anyone is ever going to again, so I don't see the need.

Hear hear. :T

There is something very creepy about men who insist on women removing all hair down there, it's as if they can't cope with the realities of adult bodies.

iamana1ias

I'm female and remove all body hair. I hate it. I don't do it for any other reason. Mind you, it does feel sexy

can't imagine many "au naturel" women have been told (repeatedly) that they have a beautiful fanjina

lostinrates

iamana1ias wrote: »

I'm female and remove all body hair. I hate it. I don't do it for any other reason. Mind you, it does feel sexy

can't imagine many "au naturel" women have been told (repeatedly) that they have a beautiful fanjina

I'm female and do both, as the mood (or maintenance) takes me. I've never had a man insist on either haircut, and yes, they say its beautiful with hair as often as they do without. TBH, I think they'd say it if it weren't often! I personally prefer untrimmed, or only moderately trimmed men...so perhaps I'm putting undue pressure on my male partners to not trim? I don't know!

tara747

iamana1ias wrote: »

I'm female and remove all body hair. I hate it. I don't do it for any other reason. Mind you, it does feel sexy

can't imagine many "au naturel" women have been told (repeatedly) that they have a beautiful fanjina

Everything???? Eyebrows as well? :eek: OK, I take it you don't remove your brows, but seriously, do you remove all your arm hairs and everything? I guess I'm lucky as I have pale blonde hair so it's invisible to the naked eye. I could go without shaving my legs all year round and nobody would know (except my OH obviously lol).

p.s. in fact, my OH has told me that I am perfect just as I am!!! :):)

ETA: I have no problem with women doing whatever they want to themselves iro hair removal and everything else, *as long as it's for them*. If it's at the insistence of a man, forget it.

mad_as_a_march_hare

My solution is find a woman to do it for you :rotfl::rotfl:

I find the best thing to use is veet hair removal cream, i know what it says on the box about not using it down there but i use it and have never had a problem.

But even better than that is i then decided to have a go at my partners bits with it and he now has a lovely smooth area too, and i now do it regularly for him.:rotfl:

iamana1ias

tara747 wrote: »

Everything???? Eyebrows as well? :eek: OK, I take it you don't remove your brows, but seriously, do you remove all your arm hairs and everything? I guess I'm lucky as I have pale blonde hair so it's invisible to the naked eye. I could go without shaving my legs all year round and nobody would know (except my OH obviously lol).

p.s. in fact, my OH has told me that I am perfect just as I am!!! :):)

ETA: I have no problem with women doing whatever they want to themselves iro hair removal and everything else, *as long as it's for them*. If it's at the insistence of a man, forget it.

I don't count my face as being part of my body! Yes, I wax everything. Arms, underarms, legs, fanjina. I'm smoother than Barbie!

tara747

iamana1ias wrote: »

I don't count my face as being part of my body! Yes, I wax everything. Arms, underarms, legs, fanjina. I'm smoother than Barbie!

oUT OF CURIOSITY, HOW LONG DOES IT ALL TAKE AND IS IT EXPENSIVE?

Sorry for the caps oops.

Do you have dark/coarse/noticeable hair, why go to all that bother? I am so nosey!!! :rotfl: