A Payment A Day - Part 8!

mumofthreemonkies83

Morning all,

Im more than happy to contribute the contents of my paypal Mary, its not much but if we all club together im sure we can gather enough.
Is your paypal email addy on your FB info page?

No pad yesterday but cleared everything I could to car savings this morning so thats a total of £95.80to car savings please Mary.

Thinking of you all today, big hugs
Emma xx

mooomin

angelicmary85 wrote: »

I don't mind gathering up all the donations into my paypal account then passing it all onto Shaun, that way he will only be getting one amount. We could get flowers and there might be enough left over to give them as a little help towards the cost of the funeral.

I was going to ask Shaun for DTs address today to send flowers, so I'm glad we all seem to be thinking the same way! Can you message me on FB and I'll send some money over? Thanks for doing this Angelic.

mooomin

£20 PAD for me today please.

Wesker

£40 from me today please

MinniMe_2

Not much for me today PAD £1.26 towards halicrap CC.

Looks like things will be tight for the next week but do have about £2 in paypal and am happy to send across if you pm me email addy for paypal.

euronorris

Morning All!

Angelic - your idea sounds lovely. Again, let me know the details and I'll send what I can afford (not much I'm afraid).

PAD of 30 GBP to the Virgin CC.

Am a bit gutted as found out yesterday that I was supposed to fill out a different form for my Dutch tax return as I was not a resident for all of 2009. This form can't be done online, has to be requested and takes 6-8 weeks to arrive! Sooooo my tax rebate is going to be very delayed! OH is now helping with the dentist bill. He offered to at first, but I wanted to be able to do it off my own back for once. Oh well.

This also means no further PAD's from me this month, unless I win the lottery (come on now.....a tenner will do! lol).

Also saw the company doc this morning. If you have a certain number of short absences during the year it raises a red flag as it can signify a bigger problem, ie stress, problems with work, teammates etc. That's not my problem, it's missing home, family and friends. Anyway, I explained all this and that I was actually ill also on those times, but this isn't helping things much. Turns out our company has it's own counsellor so he's going to recommend that I see her to teach me some tools on how to cope with it and make my life here happier.

Not that any of it matters in comparison to what DT's going through. Sending big hugs for her and her family.

Have a good day all.

xx

mumofthreemonkies83

Back again

Just reading the main forum- im not the brightest but it appears NIDDY has left MSE

I dont think I ever spoke to him personally but I loved his banter here on PAD and it seems he is/was a valued member of MSE.

This week sucks :mad:

Mumof4 xx

Paulgonnabedebtfree

euronorris wrote: »

Morning All!

Angelic - your idea sounds lovely. Again, let me know the details and I'll send what I can afford (not much I'm afraid).

PAD of 30 GBP to the Virgin CC.

Am a bit gutted as found out yesterday that I was supposed to fill out a different form for my Dutch tax return as I was not a resident for all of 2009. This form can't be done online, has to be requested and takes 6-8 weeks to arrive! Sooooo my tax rebate is going to be very delayed! OH is now helping with the dentist bill. He offered to at first, but I wanted to be able to do it off my own back for once. Oh well.

This also means no further PAD's from me this month, unless I win the lottery (come on now.....a tenner will do! lol).

Also saw the company doc this morning. If you have a certain number of short absences during the year it raises a red flag as it can signify a bigger problem, ie stress, problems with work, teammates etc. That's not my problem, it's missing home, family and friends. Anyway, I explained all this and that I was actually ill also on those times, but this isn't helping things much. Turns out our company has it's own counsellor so he's going to recommend that I see her to teach me some tools on how to cope with it and make my life here happier.

Not that any of it matters in comparison to what DT's going through. Sending big hugs for her and her family.

Have a good day all.

xx

Make sure that the ground rules are clear - particularly regarding what the counsellor is allowed to divulge to the company. My own preference would be for them to make a financial allowance in order to see an outside counsellor.

euronorris

Paulgonnabedebtfree wrote: »

Make sure that the ground rules are clear - particularly regarding what the counsellor is allowed to divulge to the company. My own preference would be for them to make a financial allowance in order to see an outside counsellor.

Thanks Paul. I will do, don't worry.

If they divulge anything I'm uncomfortable with then I will go through my GP and use my health insurance. Thankfully, they are not allowed to increase your health premiums based on previous or existing conditions or refuse you cover here. They made it law in 2006. . So, should be fine to go down that route too.

Also just seen that NIDDY has left.

angelicmary85

psychopathbabble wrote: »

it's so hard to know what to do, there is nothing we can do that is of any use. I'm happy to send some money Mary, it won't be much though. I've been thinking about it all day and it's just so awful. Maybe if we send shaun the money, he can send the flowers when the time is 'right'? I say right, there will never be a right time but I'm sure you know what I mean xx

Yeah I think it's best to leave him to sort it but I thought it might be better to send him it all in one go rather than have lots of little 'pads' go into his account.

I struggled to sleep last night thinking about it, the folks on MSE are like a big family and when something bad happeneds to one, it seems like it happends to us all.