Further financial faux pas and even more disasterous decisions

Double_Trouble

Nothing else I can do other than send you hugs but you do have a lot of friends on here and support when you need it.

Hope you and the girls get a decent Christmas

))))))))))))Moo and the miss Moos(((((((((((((

DTxx

Intergalactic_Floozie

Nothing to add other than to second what others have said. Hugs to you and hope he behaves himself over Christmas...

Lula-Hula

I wont bore you with my previously aired opinions & advice, but I will say ( & meant in the nicest way) I think you both need an epiphany, you deserve better & so do your daughters. They are not able to choose where & how they live, they rely on you to do that for them.

Best wishes for a peaceful christmas & happy new year.

Should that not occur, I am willing to attempt Top Gear style drive by shooting practice with frozen dog poo as ammo

xx

moo2moo

Would be worth leaving just to see that Lula.

Turns out OH does not recall offering to leave nor informing me he was quitting his job or telling me to quit mine. Have reminded him of this and he looked rather blank but did agree that perhaps some time on his own was needed then I wouldn't have to worry about him. Think he was floored when I told him I'd worry even more if I didn't know what was going on and what sort of state he'd got himself into. Appears he feels v. Jekyl and Hyde. Its progress, of a sort. The sensible side of me knows that leaving over Christmas would be awful for everyone.The irrational side of me doesn't give a stuff though. The DDs will adapt surprisingly quickly.

Have had a v. therapeutic morning chucking soggy stuff. Have been v. lucky, water cascaded down the wall without damaging the tv or any electrical equipment, the majority of the water was on a tiled floor which wasn't as level as it should have been so pooled in the centre. Have washed everything that got wet but had to chuck the hideous carpet from the adjacent room which soaked up water like a sponge and prevented it spreading. Now have bare concrete which is drying out faster than anticipated. Hoping the covers on the sofa will be dry enough to go back on tonight. Once they're out of the way we can decorate the Christmas tree. V. fortunate that I wan't organised enough to do that before we left otherwise all the presents would have been wet too.

Four days at OHs mums was plenty although she was suspiciously nice. DD1 got to go to the cash and carry whilst I spent a fun filled afternoon ironing table cloths. Did read a 600 page novel whilst waiting around as well as plenty of walks on the beach. The DDs swam in the pool a few times although it was a bit cold for me and a bit pointless as far as exercise goes since I can go from end to end just by pushing off from the wall.

Have done huge amounts of laundry with an enormous pile still to go. Also need to go shopping to purchase x-mas dinner and crackers and wot not as well as visiting the tip with a bootful of wet carpet. The DDs are happily watching Shrek and are planning on following this with The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe so I guess thats waiting till this evening when we can admire all the decorations. Will give me chance to work out what we need for the next couple of weeks.

beanielou

Can only echo what has been said.
Everyone has a breaking point & yours will come at some point.

Lula-Hula

*Revs engine with glee*

Leaving over christmas definitely not ideal however, its known as the most stressful time of year so perhaps a little time spent alone might be good for him in the new year, I still maintain that all residential roads should have houses for women & children to live in & then a small block of studio apartments at the end where the men live & can be summoned from to perform good deeds ( whatever the lady wants ) & then return to when task completed to lady's satisfaction.

Now, that is a female utopia

MatyMoo

Moo

So pleased to see you back posting but really sorry about everything you are going through.

Sending hugs, millions of them

Do what ever you have to to keep you and the Moolets happy and safe.

Lula-Hula wrote: »

*Revs engine with glee*

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Lula-Hula wrote: »

Leaving over christmas definitely not ideal however, its known as the most stressful time of year so perhaps a little time spent alone might be good for him in the new year, I still maintain that all residential roads should have houses for women & children to live in & then a small block of studio apartments at the end where the men live & can be summoned from to perform good deeds ( whatever the lady wants ) & then return to when task completed to lady's satisfaction.

Now, that is a female utopia

Why has nobody ever thought of this before, it is the most fantabulous idea I have ever heard

NannyOgg

MatyMoo wrote: »

Why has nobody ever thought of this before, it is the most fantabulous idea I have ever heard

Someone did

Shalva

Welcome home moo....sorry that it was such a soggy return.........just wanted to send you all the best for 2011....may the new year be a happy one for you...

I love your dairy, thanks for sharing it with us .....I wont be the only one to say "I read it first" when you are published.............

Shalva.........

Eager_Elephant

Hi Moo

Hope things are ok over there today and not too soggy!!

Try to have a good xmas and new year.

EE