MSE Parents Club Part 11

aless02

Becles wrote: »

Had another row last night. Had an absolutely stonking headache and he had loud dance music playing. The bass beat was just going bang bang bang and it was doing my head in, but I got into trouble for complaining about it

Went to bed as I was tired, but then he came up and put the light on and called me a "whingy f*cker" and said I over react at stuff.

Came down and lay on the sofa in the dark as the light was hurting my eyes, and I heard him come downstairs and get something and I got all freaked out and was frightened as I thought he was going to beat me like my ex did. He went back upstairs without coming into the room but it took me ages to settle and I got cold, so I had to go back up to bed, but he'd gone to sleep by then.

Been sick twice in the night so it must be a bug or something. Feel lousy this morning.

Got so much to do today as well. Feel like I'm swimming in treacle at the moment as there are not enough hours in the day to do stuff, and I'm so tired again.

Oh becles i thought it was getting better for u? I really hope he pulls his finger out and starts appreciating all u do for ur family.

Sj, u reminded me that i also wanted to ask about som's sling! I want another one too...too many things to buy: new slings, better nursings bras, new swimsuit. None of those cheap either!

cazscoob

Becles i hope your ok snd i think you need to talk this all out with him, easier said than done i know but you honestly cant be scared that he will do something like that to you. if you need to chat my PM box is always open. huge hugs and i hope you managed to get some sleep

ahhh my OH has done his back in, he turned last night and now cannot move he has moaned all night in his sleep so im guessing its really bad its the worse timing ever and also i have a huge tank in my car and theres no way i will ever get it out alone! looks like we are stuck?

searching_me

My little boy can crawl!!!!! :j:j:j:j:j i didnt miss it YAYYYY!!! x

Somnium

Fishcake - hope your phone recovers ok! Like you am hoping it doesnt take as long to concieve no2 as it did for Tahlie, we were 6 years and IVF!

caz - yeay for your bargains

Glam - wow for jack standing in his cot

elle - go Rhys sitting up thats so fab.

Love all the swimming chat, really hope Tahlie likes it when we get around to going as I love swimming.

SJ - thats so funny cos I want a Joey and was just telling OH that they've been reduced The Joey I have my eye on is black with green and white flowers . The wrap is a Calin Bleu it cost me £25 from yahoo sling swap as it was ex demo from Calin bleu themselves, just used for a few photo shoots, normally think there £40 new but pre loved ones are about half that. Mine is a microfleece so nice and warm for this time of year, but they do a lighter weight one too.

Becles - thats so wrotten hun that you were genuinley scared, what a bar steward! Hope the bug doesnt hang around long and you feel better soon x

xmas - fab news its not chicken pox.

csh - that pic of kieren is uber cute loving the teeth

MDW - havent taken the pill for about 9 years now! Dont intend to use any contraception of any form either, figure I'de rather be PG in a few months again than wait another 6+ years specially as we wont get any more IVF and cant afford private and am 33 now. But we understand it will happen when it happens and am grateful for T if she ends up being the only one.

aless - I need more bras too, even with my staff discount tho I think there too expensive!

searching - crawling is so fab, did you manage to capture the moment?

Well thought I was doing so well last night. Went to bed at 10pm and tahlie was straight off to sleep, no crying and I got to sleep thru till gone 3am. But that was really it and was down hill from there as was then up for 3ish hours as she was wide awake! Had another hour but then she woke again so asked OH to check her nappy and then fed her again. But again she wasnt tired so decided to get up and restore my self with coffee. Hormones are so up the wall atm, and as am not normally a teary person am feelin awful, doesnt help that the boobs are killing me atm. Tahlie isnt latching right atm and I think its cos my boobs are leaking so much she's just being lazy and for want of a better description drip feeding!

searching_me

no som as he was trying .. started to give up then turned around and hes doing it so happy x

redmel1621

searching_me wrote: »

My little boy can crawl!!!!! :j:j:j:j:j i didnt miss it YAYYYY!!! x

:T:T:T:T:T:TClever Jayden, and what a lovely thoughtful little boy....waiting till mummy can watch:D:D:D

searching_me

i know mel well chuffed ... right promised id make chocolate fairy cake with zoe so off to do that back in a little bit x

Sami_Bee

money_maker wrote: »

Hi Sami

How have you been hun ?? Feels like I havent spoken to you in ages !!

Hiya! I'm ok just wondering why I missed OH coz now he's here I'm ready to strangle him

MadDogWoman wrote: »

Sami - I'm not sure what's there either I've only been once years ago

Here's a map Costa Coffe looks quite central on the ground floor.

I was think one of the coffee shops and/or Pizza express for slightly early lunch (coz there's usually a voucher to use there:money:):cool:
Thoughts anyone?

cazscoob

searching_me wrote: »

My little boy can crawl!!!!! :j:j:j:j:j i didnt miss it YAYYYY!!! x

:j:j:jwell done little man esp as you held off to let your mummy see:D

Sami_Bee

Becles, that must have been a terrible fright! I hope it was just the situation bringing back past feelings and not genuine fear/expectation? Big hugs to you xxx

Yey for Jayden crawling, Well done!