MSE Parents Club Part 11

SusanC_2

Dontknowanymore wrote: »

I dont understand why everyone feels the need to know who he really is, or why he;s in jail, yes the parents of little james I can understand but the whole country? what will it gain for everyone to know?

I agree. I can't see how it is in the public interest for everyone to know about it.

Dontknowanymore wrote: »

But deep down it' not really is it, they need and deserve a dad, and I cant give it to either of them, how does that make me a good Mum

Maybe the ideal would be for them to have a dad but loads of people turn out okay without one and no dad is better than a violent one. It's not your fault things turned out the way they did any more than it would be if he'd been hit by a car and died. As long as you are doing the best you can for them then you are a good mum.

SugarSpun

Morning everyone

DKAM, do you have a nice father/brother/uncle/male friend who'll spend some time with the boys and teach them what good men are supposed to be like? I think boys might need a male figure around them, but not necessarily a father IYSWIM.

KOAG I hope it happens today ... and good luck EA and Somnium! Need new babies!!

I'm glad you all enjoyed your meet yesterday *not jealous*

Well done Dylan :j

Becles, how awful for you and her

SM enjoy yourself while it's quiet.

PP you're a lovely mummy, don't feel bad that LO prefers you to her CM.

I have a picture but I'm not sure if you can see it - it's on a friend's FB :A
They're in my living room, so you can see why we're always tidying and decluttering - OHs mother's estate is still awaiting putting away/tidying up/getting rid of what needs to be got rid of and so on.

Glamazon

aless02 wrote: »

ooooo, quiet then? kindof, what are you doing posting at 4am?? where's this baby of yours? in fact, where are all the babies? silly everyone going overdue like this

I wish pukehead would sleep a bit later! I dread to think what summer's going to be like, if he's already waking at 6:30 - need to sort proper blackout blind, methinks.

I need to do our blackout blind in the nursery as it's quite light in there from about 5am :eek: I should know I was up again loads!

Anyway can't stop - got 2 more jobs for today so gonna group them with another 2 in the area BUT I needed OH to help me set the printer up and he's at work so I need to go to the library to print my stuff off!
Then mummy friends for an hour or so then off on a mystery adventure!

Big hugs to anyone that needs them

searching_me

right im back but i have to sort out my wardrobe as i trip over everything and nearly did myself an injury, think thats a sigh :rotfl: im gonna tidy for today and tomorrow and then friday sit on my bum all day as my reward ..

its freakly quiet here .. gonna put some music on .. if im not back soon send the search party as i maybe lost under a mountain of clothes x

csh_2

kindofagilr wrote: »

I know SM any ideas how to uncomfy him lol

I am hoping beany will get a move on if he knows EA and SOM are in labour lol

Becles it is, I am now into week 5 of being of on mat leave andits killing me cos I want my baby here and not to be sitting around doing nothing!

Kindof: there was like a million of us all due within a week of each other on the preg thread, well OK about 11 maybe.
Kieren is the youngest!!! Bloody 14 days late!!! He came himself on day 14 tho so no induction. He's a clever boy really.
Hes been the most contented wee thing ever since birth so obviously extra cooking time done him good :cool:

eta: I done everything walked 4 miles a day etc, stairs pineapples DTD. He was in position since 37wks and I had millions of false starts.
They come when they are ready!

My_Fathers_Daughter

*shuffles in*

:cool: mornin' :cool:

MIL babysat last night, hubby and I took some time to remember why we love each other. I can confirm he is still in working order

Naughty MFD out to play on a school night. My assistant has gone for oatcakes.

*shuffles out*

kindofagilr

aless02 wrote: »

do some star jumps!

seriously, lots of walking and make sure that you're sitting in good positions at all times. have you tried nipple stimulation?

Star Jumps lol do they work???

As for the ball, what am I meant to actually do on that?

The problem I am having is with me not sleeping on a night time I am having trouble staying awke during the day and doing all these things! And I only have 2 coffee's a day!

I can go walking as well, I will be ok going in my own wont I?

No ive not tried the nipple thing either, what do you do?

No Fernlie ive not tried that either lol

Thanks for the vibes and well wishes everyone

BeenieCat

Starjumps worked for me lol. PrincessPlaty was telling me to do some when i was 8 days overdue so i did (well, i didn't do them too vigorous) Amber was born the next day and i remember when i came back on the next day to say she was born everyone pointed out it must have been the starjumps :rotfl:

Although Amber still had that waxy stuff in her hair and mw said they don't usually have that when they're late, so the dates must have been inaccurate if that's true.

kindofagilr

CSH awwww I really dont want to go that late (i know noone does lol) I think beany is teaching OH a lesson lol, its OH's birthday on 20th march and he does not want to share his birthday (even with his own son, shocking isnt he lol)

SO I think he is going to come then

The one thing that I would like is for him to be born on the 14th March as that isTaylor Hanson's birthday.

I am a massive Hanson fan, and I would presonally love that

Sorry in advance I will bore you all shitless over the years about hasnon lol

nikkit72

Morning all ,

Hope eveyone good,

I was naughty this morning , its been a long time since me and OH have DTD, well this morning we both got a bit excited and one thing lead to another and omg we did it , but didnt have any contraception:eek: so pulled out b4 anything happened , it was like our first time again , it was great , but now feel guilty incase any dripped out IYKWIM , so 8.30 am called docs to try get in , 40 mins later they answered the phone to be told no appointments , i have been trying for 3 mornings now as i need to sort out contraception ,and arrange to get sterillised, so she said is it urgent , erm yes it is , i need morning after pill , so now have to sit and wait for them to call me back to say if need MAP is urgent or not.
dread my phone bill as its 0844 number