A journey of a 1000 miles must begin with single footstep....

Happytogetdebtfree

yes you are right it just sounds so non maternal... eeek the thought was nice.. the worry of the finances was not so much xx

Woowoo

I have bagged up my change pot to pay into the bank tomorrow morning, a grand total of £3.29!

Happytogetdebtfree

yay well done will that go on the cc ? xx

Woowoo

Absolutely, I now have another £7.50 saved from the Tesco shop to pay in as well!

Happytogetdebtfree

Oh i am so mad right now

Woowoo

Oh no, what's happened?

Happytogetdebtfree

My oh is financially incompetent and frustrates me to the point of anger and i am now extreamly peed off it is one thing after the other lately

Happytogetdebtfree

Let me make sense of it... i do all the spreadsheets and the finances and we have a joint and 2 sepertae accounts due to paying overdrafts off i check mine every day to make sure enoughs in for the charge of overdraft oh has just checked his with me its got a 3.99 dd going out 1 overdrawn and 5 pound charge everyday its over he says i dont know what that is for well he must he has set it up, just lately he has done some really financially stupid stuff not getting wage ontime he has to make part of his wage and well anyway im just really flipping annoyed now i could just crack up i think im making headroom and stuff like this really upsets me grrrrrr i probably dont make sense !

Woowoo

It's not fair that you should have to babysit him to make sure he doesn't do something stupid, you make all the effort keeping the balls in the air and he goes and sets up a DD and can't remember what it's for, I would feel like banging my head against a brick wall!

Happytogetdebtfree

thats it other financial areas he is great but the clutz attitude is wearing very thin now, i got him organsied with direct debits for things because he did not pay on time then he just seems to play the ah i didnt realise that.. i mean he announced a few months ago that he didnt know his bank charged him for an overdraft and i went balistic i said come on ! do you not check your online statements why the hell do i bother i feel flipping sick with it !!