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legality of marrying in Italy

My friends new bf was married in Italy many years ago, and reckons it doesn't count as a legal marriage here.Is he right?It was a civil ceremony AFAIK:D
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  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    It counts.
  • candygirl
    candygirl Posts: 29,455 Forumite
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    It counts.
    In all cases?I'm wondering if he's trying to shut her up when she's going on about him getting divorced:o:o
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  • peachyprice
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    edited 22 February 2010 at 11:56PM
    Yep, he's wrong, and married.

    There are only a few countries where it wouldn't be recognised here, usually non-christian countries.
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  • tandraig
    tandraig Posts: 2,260 Forumite
    it counts hun . dont they have a civil ceremony to take care of the legalities then have the church one?
    does the silly sod think a civil ceremony doesnt count? so all those honeymoon marraiges abroad? hmmm they are legal ceremonies in the eyes of the law here!
  • vaio
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    candygirl wrote: »
    In all cases?I'm wondering if he's trying to shut her up when she's going on about him getting divorced:o:o

    gets my vote
  • ginvzt
    ginvzt Posts: 4,878 Forumite
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    Don't forget - getting divorce in Italy is not easy either!

    First, the parties have to obtain a separation decree. This is mandatory. Separation can be consensual or judicially imposed. In general, consensual-separation divorce proceed fairly quickly; judicial procedures, on the other hand, are more time‑consuming and depend upon the individual circumstances.
    After at least a three‑year separation, one of the parties may file for divorce. They do not have to file for this, but obviously it’s the only way they can get remarried. There is no time limit on getting a divorce.
    A joint divorce, where both parties agree, follows a quick hearing. The judge makes a decision, which is finalized approximately one month after the decision, but this time period varies. There are no guarantees on the length of time necessary for any of these processes. An estimate of cost, including attorneys, would be between 2 and 3 million lire.
    The judicial divorce takes longer, depending upon the how many and what kind of questions need to be resolved by the court. No cost estimate is available for this, since it depends on the questions and issues involved.

    (http://www.international-divorce.com/d-italy.htm)
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  • He's pulling the wool over her eyes and she is going out with a married man.
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  • Well at least it's a semi original variation on 'my wife doesn't understand me' :D
  • hollydays
    hollydays Posts: 19,812 Forumite
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    Hopefully,he hasn't been married in Italy more than once..
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