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  • ruby1968_2
    ruby1968_2 Posts: 498 Forumite
    thanks Bevan840 yes your right CFS (fibromyalgia) absolute nightmare considering a few year ago I was as my husband would say Hypoactive and now very not but I do try and often push myself over the limit. will certainly look at the site. thankyou
    :oDH CC £969.00, bank loans *2 £27634.00,Overdraft=£696.00 Total Debts to Tackle = £29299:o sealed pot member 923=£26.99, £2 club member 75 = £0.00 2011 challenge member 36
  • bevan840
    bevan840 Posts: 1,014 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Unfortunately (or fortunately) my DH met me just as it started to get worse again, so he never really saw how hyperactive I could be lol
    I've had to watch myself though as I recently found out how it makes him feel when I go backwards and I don't want to do that to him as he's brill at taking care of me when I am bad (which is quite regular at the moment :o) but never realised what it was doing to him, I didn't think it affected him much *shrug*

    I hope your doing ok
    :idea: Jan 09. Debt @ LBM - £11936.55 Debt at worst - £12600.55 Current Debt (01/03/2012) £8,859.51 29.7% Paid off
    Honeymoon Fund £410.40/£6000 House Deposit £1.50
    :A Proud to be dealing with my debts. DFW Nerd 1177 :A
  • ruby1968_2
    ruby1968_2 Posts: 498 Forumite
    thanks bevan840
    I take everyday as it comes and depending how i am 1st thing in the morning will depend on the type of day, feeling rather off today as i've had enough but tomorrows another day:) hopefully the sun will shine and the mood will be better.:) my Dh has seen both sides and nower day he tells me when to stop,and that I should be resting or sleeping, isn't funny that sometimes they know.
    :oDH CC £969.00, bank loans *2 £27634.00,Overdraft=£696.00 Total Debts to Tackle = £29299:o sealed pot member 923=£26.99, £2 club member 75 = £0.00 2011 challenge member 36
  • ruby1968_2
    ruby1968_2 Posts: 498 Forumite
    Total for the rest of the week £283.80
    Outgoings petrol £70.00 transfer to DH
    Hair cut £5.00 friend doing (hairdresser)
    Groceries £70.00
    Balance of £138.80:)
    Will make a note on Pad payments later
    Payday Friday as well :j
    :oDH CC £969.00, bank loans *2 £27634.00,Overdraft=£696.00 Total Debts to Tackle = £29299:o sealed pot member 923=£26.99, £2 club member 75 = £0.00 2011 challenge member 36
  • ruby1968_2
    ruby1968_2 Posts: 498 Forumite
    :jMy pads today are:
    £4.24 to O/D:)
    £3.00 to Cat:)
    £3.50 to Nat cc:)
    £3.50 to BOS :)

    Total Pad for today £14.24.:T
    :oDH CC £969.00, bank loans *2 £27634.00,Overdraft=£696.00 Total Debts to Tackle = £29299:o sealed pot member 923=£26.99, £2 club member 75 = £0.00 2011 challenge member 36
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,553 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Good news on the Pads.
    I do it differently as I concentrate on one at a time IYSWIM.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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  • bevan840
    bevan840 Posts: 1,014 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Well done on the PAD's :) every little penny counts :)
    :idea: Jan 09. Debt @ LBM - £11936.55 Debt at worst - £12600.55 Current Debt (01/03/2012) £8,859.51 29.7% Paid off
    Honeymoon Fund £410.40/£6000 House Deposit £1.50
    :A Proud to be dealing with my debts. DFW Nerd 1177 :A
  • ruby1968_2
    ruby1968_2 Posts: 498 Forumite
    :) Hi Bevan840
    Yes it certainly does, not quite sure whats got into me at the moment, one minute I'm down then up, am starting to feel like a yoyo:rotfl:things go right and then back again. have had a good day shopping with my frugal friend and am learning a lot I sear we spend hours in asda costing everything up before it goes in trolley, it's a whole new world out there and I'm slowly getting the hang of it, which is :T still got some way to go as I know it's not going to happen overnight and that one day Myself an d my DH will be debt free.:)
    :oDH CC £969.00, bank loans *2 £27634.00,Overdraft=£696.00 Total Debts to Tackle = £29299:o sealed pot member 923=£26.99, £2 club member 75 = £0.00 2011 challenge member 36
  • ruby1968_2
    ruby1968_2 Posts: 498 Forumite
    Thanks beanielou

    yep thats proberly easier but thought I'd do the 4 today as I had a bit spare.:)
    :oDH CC £969.00, bank loans *2 £27634.00,Overdraft=£696.00 Total Debts to Tackle = £29299:o sealed pot member 923=£26.99, £2 club member 75 = £0.00 2011 challenge member 36
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,553 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Its all about what suits YOU best :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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