Having courage to be honest

ruby1968_2

:hello:Hi Hun
not to bad have been rather busy, have been making the most of the weather, putting bulbs and plants in, washing etc and it's only tuesday, also having had the new council tax bill in and water rates will be spending tomorrow revising finances ready for next month and also have mot next week :eek: fingers crossed should be ok, but if not then off road over school holidays( never mind thinking positive).

HAPPY BIRTHDAY :bdaycake:

40somethingmum

Thanks hun.:A

ruby1968_2

:TGood morning all Have padded £3.00 TODAY towards catalogue.:T

Will be back later as i need to revise payments for April onwards as new bills for the year have arrived (council tax and water rates) not as if we didn't know it was coming .:eek:

:)also have an ebayer round tonight to collect item sold on ebay, thats another £2.00 to the pot.:)

ruby1968_2

well after a relatively busy day with the usual have just had knock on door from neighbour, to let m know that my overflow was going from the bathroom, so in a panick stricken moment flew in bathroom yep you guested 2" water freezing cold on the bathroom floor:eek: wouldn't of minded too much but had already cleaned the bathroom today.

didn't even manage to get the finances revised oh well there's always tomorrow (flooding pending):rotfl:

ruby1968_2

:mad:ok I'm Mad:eek: woke up this morning another flood, they only mended last night on emergancy call out:mad: luckly the hubby was in the bathroom at the time (made a change for him to get wet feet:D) left me to it last night went out for a pint:mad:.

So thats 3 floods in 3 days and 2 repairs well today I want it fixed properly, or will that be 3 floods 3 days 3 repairs:( can't do anything till 8.30 when the offices open, have wellies at the ready and mop bucket ready. wish me luck.

beanielou

What a flipping carry on.
Hope you can get it sorted out properly.

40somethingmum

OMG. What a nightmare!! Hope you get it sorted soon . ((Hugs)):A

40SMxx

ruby1968_2

:jHi Guys, yep all sorted now hopefully have had new cystan put in and new over flow outlet:) lovely chap, completely done and finished under an hour, even gave him a cuppa tea.;) for his trouble. hope youv'e both had a good day thankyou for your support.

ruby1968_2

Sorry but need to do this and release it from my head, I had mentioned before that I was going to set myself some targets, well I did but I now I think I had set myself up for failure and yep I was right just like you said:o , well I did try, I need to rethink and work out which is the best way forward, I know it’s getting me down and even my hubby said tonight that I seem very distant. Well I tried to sit down and sort things out but I think I have got myself in a muddle and concentrate on clearing 1 debt whilst the others are reducing I think I need some time out as I may be trying to hard with this.
I look around me every day and think is it all worth it and the answer is I don’t know anymore:(, I try so hard to keep things going and then something happens and it goes all wrong and I go back down again.
Getting hassle from all directions doesn’t help so am feeling a complete failure at the moment.:(

Am in need of advice and cuddles.

beanielou

Huggles hun.
I think you are best to pay mins on all accounts apart from your target card which you should fling what you can at it,HTH.