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Thats another fine mess I got myself into

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  • lucielle
    lucielle Posts: 11,499 Forumite
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    Hope you manage to safely get your jobs done.
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  • Woowoo
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    Drive safely Red x
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  • Cialilerin wrote: »
    Not only are we married to the same man, we may also have the same sister ;) No matter what I do, it is wrong so I just keep my head down and so long as my mom is happy I ignore her - there s enough going on without me wasting my energy feeling bad about her!

    Mine told DH two years ago 'when I next see HER I will tell HER exactly what I think of her' (that was after she had been a nightmare). DH advised her she wouldn't be seeing me again, so there really was no point in her planning her speech!!

    She is the most horrendous person I have ever met. She told DH a lie about something I allegedly said..............which could have ended my marriage. Thankfully DH laughed in her face and said that he couldn't believe she would be so spiteful!

    I try hard to not even think about her..........she is not worth the energy. But sometimes I feel bad for DH to be estranged from her....he assures me he is not bothered.

    Ok rant over!

    Really need to get off my !!! and do something constructive!
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  • Woowoo
    Woowoo Posts: 4,603 Forumite
    Is it your sister then Red, or your DH's?

    I'm not surprised you want nothing to do with her, she sounds like a jealous nasty piece of work. I can't believe she would try and poision your marriage.
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  • REDMADCURLS
    REDMADCURLS Posts: 3,766 Forumite
    No its DH's sister, mine can be upsetting, but his is in a diff league!

    Ok bed changed and wash on, upstairs vacumned and now lunch!
    LBM Feb 2010 £62,700 Total Debt Jan 11 [STRIKE]£49,403.84[/STRIKE] £47,530.32.
    (CC/LOAN = [STRIKE]36,378.98[/STRIKE] 35668.47. O/D = [STRIKE]1255.32[/STRIKE] 1212.35/[STRIKE]1999.78[/STRIKE] 1934.52, BUS = [STRIKE]9769.76[/STRIKE] 8714.98)
    Challenge = Debt at 31/01/12 = £25k. 2011 Payments = £1,944.19/£24,403.84

    There is no point in negative thought, it takes up time and energy which could be used in a positive, happy way!
  • Woowoo
    Woowoo Posts: 4,603 Forumite
    Wishing you & DH a wonderful relaxing Xmas x
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  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    What an evilpiece of work she is.
    Gosh it's cold there.....-16 yuck.
    Hope you manage to get around safely xx
  • REDMADCURLS
    REDMADCURLS Posts: 3,766 Forumite
    LOL its now just -2 and from Monday we are back in + temps - oh the excitement.

    My 12 year old neice told me today she doesn't like Christmas, because by tomorrow bedtime it is all over and then you have to wait a whole 12 months for it to come again......................she wants two Christmas' a year!!

    Getting ready to go out - to mum and to friends - but house cleaned so little to do now before guests arrive on Tues/Wed!

    Hope you are all having a happy day!
    LBM Feb 2010 £62,700 Total Debt Jan 11 [STRIKE]£49,403.84[/STRIKE] £47,530.32.
    (CC/LOAN = [STRIKE]36,378.98[/STRIKE] 35668.47. O/D = [STRIKE]1255.32[/STRIKE] 1212.35/[STRIKE]1999.78[/STRIKE] 1934.52, BUS = [STRIKE]9769.76[/STRIKE] 8714.98)
    Challenge = Debt at 31/01/12 = £25k. 2011 Payments = £1,944.19/£24,403.84

    There is no point in negative thought, it takes up time and energy which could be used in a positive, happy way!
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    you too red
  • Radish72
    Radish72 Posts: 2,075 Forumite
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    LOL its now just -2 and from Monday we are back in + temps - oh the excitement.

    My 12 year old neice told me today she doesn't like Christmas, because by tomorrow bedtime it is all over and then you have to wait a whole 12 months for it to come again......................she wants two Christmas' a year!!

    Getting ready to go out - to mum and to friends - but house cleaned so little to do now before guests arrive on Tues/Wed!

    Hope you are all having a happy day!

    I'm with your niece, we need another Christmas in the summer, when its not to cold to go shopping :)
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