**Hump Day Daily Chat****3rd Feb

clairewop

snaggs sounds like the person you was talking to earlier will be more suited, you can take things slowly

Ellidee

Snaggs - you have to admit that you do seem to attract men with - er - 'issues' . Or maybe you are attracted to them - even if only subconsciously ?

Burlesque_Babe

Snaggles wrote: »

El - yep - he messaged me, and after thinking it over I decided to reply, but now apparently I am the one in the wrong, my crystal ball should have told me he was busy and stressed with work, I have hurt him by suggesting he might be playing games, and he can't see how I have possibly come to that ridiculous concusion.

Oh, and I also shouldn't mind the fact that I always have to initiate conversations and dates, because he's not a good communicator (even though he was at the beginning when there was something he wanted from me). :mad:

no flies on him then

Ames

Or maybe they're the only type of men that go on dating websites?!

Burlesque_Babe

Snaggles wrote: »

Not sure about cute new guy, he's a bit...well, he's just so perky, and it's slightly irritating! :cool:

imagine how you'd feel after a month :eek:

Snaggles wrote:

Did talk to someone else earlier that seems much more my type, and he's not sure if he's ready for a relationship, so that should make me feel right at home... :rotfl:

oh heck..........tie her down girls, keep her away from him :eek::eek::rotfl:Although.........how long have you known him? Sounds a bit early to be mentioning the 'r' word!!

clairewop

i'm going to say goodnight ladies

catch you all sometime tomorrow

bank_of_slate

And I bet every one of them has more regard for your feelings snaggs!
...Linda xx

Ellidee

Snaggs I think you maybe need to go for a toyboy - any older with 'history' seems to mean 'issues'.

Ellidee

Night Claire - see you tomorrow. XX

Snaggles

Think I spotted a couple of exes in that photo Linda. :rotfl:

Don't worry, I'm not seriously considering the second guy I mentioned - we had a fun chat and our feelings about relationships were just one of the things we talked about. He's another Shrek, I'm sure. We talked briefly a month or two ago and I stopped talking to him because I discovered he had a fake FB profile he used just to 'have fun', so it's fair to say there would be a trust issue, and he's already told me he briefly worked as a male escort :eek: so I am sooooo not going there!!!

It's true to say I'm attracted to fairly complicated people. I have no idea why, it's not a conscious thing. I don't feel any compulsion to 'fix' them, so it doesn't really make sense except that it could perhaps be a 'safe' relationship, ie, it will never become serious, and I'm aware of a conscious fear of getting serious with anyone, so maybe that's it.