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How soon is too soon?

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  • I am planning mine with only 6 months - and a lot of people are aghast when I say I'm getting married in July and don't have this or that booked yet. I think everyone expects you to do things a year or so in advance these days!
  • bubbles0169
    bubbles0169 Posts: 6,230 Forumite
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    were getting married end of september 2012!!:)
    we can keep each other updated:)
    shellsuit your getting married on my birthday:heart2:
    we will be getting married inbetween my OH an my birthday too :)
    minxybella i keep wondering if ill be like that too but i cant help but think of the wedding:o
    I am not bossy I just have better ideas:p
  • birduk
    birduk Posts: 466 Forumite
    Another one here! I am getting married in 2012 too! Hopefully a winter wedding as OH is not good in the warm.. he tends to be a bit shiny!

    Not sure where or when and was wondering when I should book all these things. Maybe have a Friday wedding to keep guests/costs down or run away! Who knows? :think: But 12/12/12 looks likely (mid-week). We got together on 06/06/06 and engaged 09/09/09 so it makes sense!

    If nothing else I know what type of dress I want.
  • hezza86 wrote: »
    Im confirmed for 14th july 2012.
    woop!

    i'm 1st July 2012! (Sorry just had to get my bit in....when we first got engaged in december 2008 2012 seemed FOREVER away but now its only two and a bit years hurrah!) :D
  • bubbles0169
    bubbles0169 Posts: 6,230 Forumite
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    birduk wrote: »
    Another one here! I am getting married in 2012 too! Hopefully a winter wedding as OH is not good in the warm.. he tends to be a bit shiny!

    Not sure where or when and was wondering when I should book all these things. Maybe have a Friday wedding to keep guests/costs down or run away! Who knows? :think: But 12/12/12 looks likely (mid-week). We got together on 06/06/06 and engaged 09/09/09 so it makes sense!

    If nothing else I know what type of dress I want.
    oh i dont like the 6/6/6 but each to their own;):rotfl:
    at least you cant do a 13th of the 13th 2013
    am i right in saying 12/12/12 is the last one of doing 'that'
    you cant have 13 as i said so 12 will be the last wont it?
    thatl make it even more special :)
    I am not bossy I just have better ideas:p
  • picklepick
    picklepick Posts: 4,048 Forumite
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    birduk wrote: »
    Another one here! I am getting married in 2012 too! Hopefully a winter wedding as OH is not good in the warm.. he tends to be a bit shiny!

    Not sure where or when and was wondering when I should book all these things. Maybe have a Friday wedding to keep guests/costs down or run away! Who knows? :think: But 12/12/12 looks likely (mid-week). We got together on 06/06/06 and engaged 09/09/09 so it makes sense!

    If nothing else I know what type of dress I want.

    wooo we got engaged on the same day!!!!
    What matters most is how well you walk through the fire
  • birduk
    birduk Posts: 466 Forumite
    I don't mind 6/6/6, although it might be bad knews for him... _pale_ I only know them because it was the day I was promoted at the TA and it was the end of our camp in Gibraltar when we fell in love. :j

    I had to say yes on 09/09/09 as he was leaving for Afghanistan!

    12/12/12 fits in as it is when the sharesave scheme at work finishes (the June), which we both have put into, so we will have a nice amount of cash for wedding things! :beer: So that's it all done then. No babies on 15/15/15!!!

    Congratulations ladies!
  • picklepick
    picklepick Posts: 4,048 Forumite
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    you'd have a job doing anything on 15/15/15 as it doesnt exist!

    Can i just say to the OP aswell, its never too soon to start planning. We started planning in Sept when we got engaged and a lot of the venues we looked at already had booking for the dates we wanted and even some for 2012!
    What matters most is how well you walk through the fire
  • birduk
    birduk Posts: 466 Forumite
    I understood that Pickledpink! I see you have 18 months to plan yours. May I ask what you have done so far? It seems so much gets planned in advance, but then so quickly!
  • picklepick
    picklepick Posts: 4,048 Forumite
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    Hi Bird, sorry haha

    I've booked the venue and the minister for the chapel, the photographer (the one we originally wanted was already booked for our date so got on with this asap) and ive chosen and paid a deposit for my dress. My dress was the first thing i did haha

    I'm just starting to organise my invites now. We're going to be making them ourselves so i want to get a headstart on it. I know its going to take us ages to do...

    We're also in the process of buying a house which is going to take up a lot of my time in the next couple of months, so it'll be 12 months to go before i know it!
    What matters most is how well you walk through the fire
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