MSE Parents Club Part 10

searching_me

Sami_Bee wrote: »

not at all, why should it? (that not a 'funny' qu I'm just intrigued, you always say you couldn't 'do' having another small one but you seem to cope really well)

i dont know more then 2 seems like a big step for me .. if we did decide to have another one it wouldnt be til jayden was at least 5 the idea of 2 small young un really does scare me as i worry i couldnt handle it .. it took alot to decide to have number 2 and we tried for really 2 years and ectopic in that as well .. suppose thats just rambling but i think it just boils down to i dont think i could cope .. lack of money, extra stress, family issues etc (that sound really bad doesnt it) x

Sami_Bee

redmel1621 wrote: »

I need to read up on it again, but I think when I read about the non-hormonal one it says can cause abdominal pain and very heavy periods....iirc from here and a friend who had the hormonal one it stops periods completely??

My periods went from relatively painful and heavy to painless and just spotting on the IUS

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three2be

redmel1621 wrote: »

..iirc from here and a friend who had the hormonal one it stops periods completely??

Stopped mine too!! initially i had to wear a liner for months because of spotting but after that it was years of period/pain free months.:j
Considering it again. Should really have made that GP appointment when i got the last one out :rotfl::rotfl:but then i wouldn't have met you lot!

searching_me

im on the depo and still getting periods .. im hoping the next injection stops them as it will be the 4th x

Sami_Bee

searching_me wrote: »

i dont know more then 2 seems like a big step for me .. if we did decide to have another one it wouldnt be til jayden was at least 5 the idea of 2 small young un really does scare me as i worry i couldnt handle it .. it took alot to decide to have number 2 and we tried for really 2 years and ectopic in that as well .. suppose thats just rambling but i think it just boils down to i dont think i could cope .. lack of money, extra stress, family issues etc (that sound really bad doesnt it) x

not at all, it would be bad if you went and had another knowing you couldn't afford it etc
if/when we get #3 Chris will be at school so in theory wouldn't need as much attention (as in help eating/using toilet/dressing) so it shouldn't be too much different from now with a toddler and baby, please don't remind me of this if I'm here in 3yrs tearing my hair out!

emlou2009

Quick question for those with older ones, how early do you need to put LO's names down for a place in nursery for once they get their free hours each week? Theres a super-fancy Montessouri nursery opening up just down the road, but dont know how quickly its likely to fill up or if there will be a waiting list? The regular nursery in the town centre has a 1 year waiting list for full time positions :eek:

searching_me

sami .. dont worry i wont hold you to it :rotfl: .. it was one of the reason i went on the depo asap .. no more babies going pop out of me x

searching_me

em zoes playgroup automatically put zoe in for the local school and i just spoke to them ... so sorry love i cant help x

money_maker_3

em, theres people here put babies details down the day they are born to get a place !!

redmel1621

emlou2009 wrote: »

Quick question for those with older ones, how early do you need to put LO's names down for a place in nursery for once they get their free hours each week? Theres a super-fancy Montessouri nursery opening up just down the road, but dont know how quickly its likely to fill up or if there will be a waiting list? The regular nursery in the town centre has a 1 year waiting list for full time positions :eek:

I have got Kai's name down for the pre-school we want him in...she also gave me a second form and told me to register tummy baby too... They are completely full for the next academic year already and are starting to fill up for the following sept(2011), which is when Kai will start!!

So basically ASAP