MSE Parents Club Part 10

cazscoob

lewis slept with me until he was 2 but the other have always slept in their own beds? When i had Abi he would pull his quilt through and sleep on the floor at the side of her moses basket lol! charlie will not sleep anywhere but his own bed? i put him into mine this aft when he was ill and he cried climbed out and took to me his own room lol!

searching_me

caz we all get like that sometimes ... god only knows i do and you all 'listen' even if its sometimes small and not worth my effort ........

speaking of not worth my effort .. i saw'that gir' today and just walked past her and pretended i didnt see her .. i know its silly but i was in such a good much i didnt want her to spoil it x

tarajayne

Caz, sometimes just writing it down, then re-reading it helps you sort it in your head. Sound to me like you're taking the world on your shoulders, so who are you leaning on hun???

tarajayne

MDW, I am totally selfish and love sleeping with them, I had Ben with me when I got home Monday. I don't put Maddy down in case OH rolls on her, she still sleeps with her head in my arms.

Glamazon

money_maker wrote: »

Glam, do you do all the night wakes? Or does OH do them if he is off work the next day ??
You are going to exhaust yourself if you are doing all of them hun !

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If I don't laugh I might cry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He's worse on a Friday and Saturday night because he know he doesn't have to get up early!

karen1907 wrote: »

Glam - I have to say I was a bit annoyed and felt a bit outnumbered by them all saying they don't get up and take an hour getting their LOs back to sleep (which is what has been happening over the last week) - there were 3 of them saying they leave their babies cry themselves to sleep/settle themselves.

Normally I don't pay that much attention but thought it would be nice to be able to leave her settle herself and thought I'd give it a go. Will have to see how often T wakes tonight -hopefully she will go back to once and go straight back to sleep..... *pig flying over* but ever the optimist

I think there should be a point where they can get themselves off to sleep so that you can pop them down and get your evenings back. Especially when you go back to work! It also means they don't rely on it when they wake in the middle of the night.
When J was newborn I would cuddle him all night to get him off to sleep - he'd lie on my chest asleep and is the only way he'll sleep now if he's uspet/overtired/poorly. I think he's only really been settling himself the last few weeks and even now he sometimes needs a pat on the back or a rub before he'll drop off properly.

Sometimes I bring him into our bed if he wakes up in the night and I let him sleep on my chest - he loves to snuggle up and OH rolls over and strokes his feet. I do worry though because I leave his sleeping bag on and he has the duvet over him but he seems to love it.

Caz - I really would suggest getting a second opinion, I get so :mad::mad: at GP's who are so dismissive

Sami_Bee

got-it-spend-it wrote: »

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Henry's line is the top but one on the graph :eek:.

Went to Booby club at Ikea today (free hot chocolate :money:) and one of the ladies said she'd had 'relations' while BFing....like while actually feeding her LO :eek:. Is anyone else freaked out by that, or am I a prude?

I've put gisi after your henry's name, did it before I'd caught up then notice you getting confused lol I'm obviously psychic :cool:
If you click on the square next to your childs name their line flashes

_pale_ at ikea woman! That is disgusting!! I haven't managed to have relations with a child in the room because as soon as they make even the slightest noise I loose all amorous feelings! it does remind me to ask though.. BFers have you ever leaked milk in the throws of passion? It's my biggest fear and I cringe if OH touches them in case they set off :undecided

elle_gee wrote: »

I witnessed a nutter in Superdrug earlier. He was in front of me in the queue, buying something pain-killer-ish (from the conversation). He was telling the woman serving (as well as the rest of the shop!) that he had a headache; the lady suggested it was possibly the cold weather and his answer was "no, I got hit over the head by a lump hammer" :eek: Oh, well that'll explain it then! _pale_ Also adding to the nutter-ness was the fact that he was carrying either skis or a snowboard on his back... now I know we have half a cm of snow on the ground, but Grimsby really isn't a place you would need either of those! :cool:

tarajayne

Glam I do take her sleeping bag off when she comes in. But we do have a 13tog on our bed at the moment.

Sami_Bee

Mel - MFD is a which subscriber

cazscoob

tarajayne wrote: »

Caz, sometimes just writing it down, then re-reading it helps you sort it in your head. Sound to me like you're taking the world on your shoulders, so who are you leaning on hun???

at the moment you guys! im not talking to my mum and dont really have anyone just now. sound like a total looser now?

money_maker_3

Glam, I would be very tempted to put him in bed with OH when he wakes and go lay on the sofa so he had no choice but to deal with him !!!