Trying for a Baby part 5....

gettingthereslowly

Morning all,

Well CD1

Thanks for all the hugs and well wishes!

Wasn't really expecting a BFP this month haven't bd enough plus gave up on the CBFM cos i wasnt getting a peak. Still raw when AF arrives though! What is it about us women trying to beleive something that we know it not true or going to happen!! :mad:

Re the job. I've been expecting it but felt so gutted about the letter. Whats upset me more is that noboby else has had one. I KNOW that they would not score any higher than me in the matrix so why is it only me that has been chosen? Dont want to go down the "Only girl in the team" path but may have to at some point. Even if its only to delay it a little whilst i hopefully find a new job :cool:

Oh well. Have to move on and deal with it!!! Another boring day in work but have lots of job applications to complete and lots of other bits and pieces to do. Might as well use the time productively

Keeping my fingers crossed for you all xxxxxx

Primmer

Teenie - (((hugs))) I know what you mean when I was in tears last month when af arrived my oh didn't know
why I was upset. I think it's not the same for them, they are not looking for ov and then ss for 2ww and then having af show and feeling so rubbish!

GTS - (( hugs)) for af showing and for letter. Use your time at work to look for other jobs. Sure you will find something even better and it will be for best in the end. Bl00dy witch!

BigSister2008

Morning all

Hugs GTS

TMI - Having really light pink discharge but no other AF symptoms yet so i doubt its me this month

I will be lurking over the next few months as i have Dr app tomorrow about going back on the pill for a few months - dont really want to be me and OH think its best for a few months until we get sorted

SBDTA

Teenie_D

Morning ladies!

Sorry GTS for the witch making an appearance That's carp that you are the only one who got a letter-I don't suppose they have an inkling that your ttc do they, probably not but just a thought.

Bigsis sorry that it looks like AF is on her way. Good luck and lets hope when you come off the pill it will happen a bit quicker for you.

CD27 no sign of AF yet just wish she would hurry up, with the cramps I was getting yesterday I thought she would have been here by now. I did test this morning although I said I wouldn't but a BFN and lets face it these IC's are mega sensitive so if it is a bfn now I think I can safely say it isn't my time yet either

Goodness me August so far hasn't been a great month for BFP's,lets hope at least somone gets one!

On a positive note though getting back on my diet today so at least I will have lost the weight I put on when on hols (and hopefully more) before I finally get my BFP, at least I wont be worried about them being able to find a baby in there under the layers of flab :D

Have a lovely day ladies and SBDTA xxx

fantafan

Teenie_D wrote: »

Glad your feeling a bit better debs.

Fingers crossed for you Bigsis.

Feeling really poo, have period pains without the period:mad: just wish it would make a show and be done with. Spoke to my DH about it and his reaction was oh well it'll happen when it happens. I know we havent been trying for very long but I just feel it's all one sided at the mo. He takes no interest in when I may actually be able to fall pregnant. I do tell him when I think I am most fertile and we usually BD but once is just not enough. Two months in a row now he has more or less refused to dtd when i think I'm ready to ovulate and I don't want to get to the stage that it's his 'fault' that I am not falling pregnant. When I get a BFN or AF shows he doesn't seem in the least bit bothered and yet he DOES want another baby and is quite broody at time (where's that confused smiley when you need it!)

Like I said to him it's a complete emotional rollercoaster and there is not a day that goes by when it pops into my head at least once, I feel that it's only me that is feeling completely emotional about it though. He said he doesn't know anything about ttc (except the obvious ) but he doesn't try and learn!

He's away out for a walk (usual nightly walk, not a storm off in a huff one ) but we are going to have to talk about it seriously, if things don't start to change then not sure what I'm going to do but not going through this on my own indefinately.

Okay rant over, I have been dying to get that off my chest for ages it is just a bit embarrassing when I keep trying to jump my DH and he aint interested. - never used to be like this (see previous post :pLOL )

Hugs and SBDTA xxx

((BIG HUGS)) Teenie. I know EXACTLY how you feel. I was angling this morning for nookie but DH is too in to building work and being productive. I almost feel relieved when CBFM says low. Mine has the "it'll happen" head on when I mention it but I feel like screaming til I'm blue in the face "IT WON'T SODDING HAPPEN IF WE DON'T DTD!".

OO, that felt better.

((BIG HUGS)) to GTS. It's a horrible place to be in limbo and either way it doesn't harm to get registered with agencies. 2 of my favourite jobs came about that way and I never looked back.

CD11, Low for me. No nookie since....22nd JULY!:eek: FF has it's disadvantages of bloody accuracy in these things. Mind you, I had been bleeding since then til AF but at least AF is back to 2 days light.

Better get dressed and productive. It's sunny up North but for how long who knows???!!!

Hope you all have a good day SBDTA.

x

Evansangel

((hugs)) to those that AF got and those leaving us, you will be missed.

Meh, PMA is on the low today. I seem to be getting very frustrated with everything with quickly.

x

gettingthereslowly

Teenie_D wrote: »

I don't suppose they have an inkling that your ttc do they, probably not but just a thought.

No infact quite the opposite. Ive always made out that babies would be the worst thing and im not really one to coo over other peoples babies if i dont know them so they've never looked at me as being broody! Like me I think they thought that if i was going to have any it would have happened by now

Think this is my oppurtunity to go just gonna try to drag it out as long as i can in the hope another job will be found and offered soon :j Redundancy money would then be a very nice nest egg for a new arrival (DH convinced me of this yest and has given me a new outlook to it all )

Fanta - 22nd July :eek: Doesnt he know us ladies have needs too not just TTC!!

Teenie - Keeping my fingers crossed that the witch stays away

BigSister - Keeping fingers crossed for you too. Not long now until the big move. Wishing you loads of luck

Primmer - A couple of my ideal jobs which i know i can do and would love have come up and apps sent off. Keeping my fingers crossed for those because that would be just perfect but in the meantime anything will do

Evansangel - Big ((HUGS)). Hope your PMA returns soon. If its dry, try to get outdoors with your DH and Lily. A little stroll in the sun (or dry) always seems to cheer me up

Right off for a little look on the redundancy board and then need to complete some job apps.

Sticky baby dust to all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

QQuaver

BigSister2008 wrote: »

TMI - Having really light pink discharge but no other AF symptoms yet

Hmmm....

Teenie_D wrote: »

CD27 no sign of AF yet

Come on girls! We need some BFPs to brighten up this thread!
Who's volunteering?:)

gratefulforhelp_2

Popping in to say Thanks and hugs to GTS.

gettingthereslowly

no worries GFH you're welcome x