Trying for a Baby part 5....

pawpurrs

Afternoon Ladies,
QQ Hope i didnt offend earlier
GTS Sorry to hear about the redundancy letter.

Well CD14 for me today, POAS this avro and no line still, but under the plastic bit there was a line, but I pressume this isnt relevant, (the plastic peeled off a bit, am guessing this is where the pee went under, over the ten minutes a very faint line appeared higher up, so maybe its on its way? Very confusing.
Well DH wasnt up for it last night or today, so no BDing here!
Hope your all having a good weekend ladies.
Hugs to those in need.

QQuaver

pawpurrs wrote: »

QQ Hope i didnt offend earlier

No not at all, I just seem to have skipped your post:p

No it's not a new thing for DH, it happened on our wedding night as well:o And every cycle when I say ov.
I think there's definite psychological issue there, some ov allergy:rotfl:

I don't talk about ttc at all, I only answer in the shortest possible way if he asks.
What he asks is 'did you get a peak (on CBFM)?' every morning. I'm going to reply 'no, not yet' this cycle if I ever get 'peak':cool:

Well CD14 for me today, POAS this avro and no line still, but under the plastic bit there was a line, but I pressume this isnt relevant,

I assume you got the right control line?
Is it POAS or pee in a cup? Did you dip it in long enough?

pawpurrs

pee in a cup, yes left it in long enough (I think) (how long is enough) Will keep trying and see what happens.
Sounds like he gets perfomance anxiety, ie when he feels he should be performing, wedding night, peak days, etc.....
Although not nice to lie to OH, it may be the best way, if you are both wanting the babba so much it will be for his own good, guess its the only way us woman have it easy!

QQuaver

pawpurrs wrote: »

pee in a cup, yes left it in long enough (I think) (how long is enough)

I stir for 10 secs:cool:

Although not nice to lie to OH, it may be the best way,

Well I'll have a go at lying this cycle (if I ov) to see if it helps:o

madbird_2

GTS, sorry about the letter hun, you've got your PMA and plan of action one way or the other. I know that horrible sinking feeling. Thinking of you xx

Teenie_D

madbird wrote: »

fell asleep! Woke up..BD:D...snuggled up....BD again:D..

Lucky girl, way to go!

Regarding the viagra, from what I remember it heightened the pleasure if that's the right way to put it!

GTS sorry to here that hun. Things WILL turn out for the best one way or another. Hope af stays away x

ddebski_us

Evening ladies

I'm feeling a bit better now. After my whinge about feeling down on here, I managed to get a second wind(!) and gave the "nursery" door a third coat of paint, hoovered, cleaned the kitchen, did the ironing and went for a swim and did 64 lengths (a mile)!! Am now slobbing in front of the telly waiting for DH to get home from work..... Throat is still sore, still hungry and windy........

GTS - sorry about the letter. You do seem to have excellent PMA though.:T

Until tomorrow girls - Oceans Twelve is on later so will be having a oogle-fest.........:drool:

xDx

BigSister2008

Evening all

((HUGS)) to all who need it

Lemon tree & Doglover - You will be missed

I am joining you guys if i dont get my BFP this month as i said earlier as the stress of emigrating is too much ontop of TTC

NO AF signes yet - fingers crossed

SBDTA

Teenie_D

Glad your feeling a bit better debs.

Fingers crossed for you Bigsis.

Feeling really poo, have period pains without the period:mad: just wish it would make a show and be done with. Spoke to my DH about it and his reaction was oh well it'll happen when it happens. I know we havent been trying for very long but I just feel it's all one sided at the mo. He takes no interest in when I may actually be able to fall pregnant. I do tell him when I think I am most fertile and we usually BD but once is just not enough. Two months in a row now he has more or less refused to dtd when i think I'm ready to ovulate and I don't want to get to the stage that it's his 'fault' that I am not falling pregnant. When I get a BFN or AF shows he doesn't seem in the least bit bothered and yet he DOES want another baby and is quite broody at time (where's that confused smiley when you need it!)

Like I said to him it's a complete emotional rollercoaster and there is not a day that goes by when it pops into my head at least once, I feel that it's only me that is feeling completely emotional about it though. He said he doesn't know anything about ttc (except the obvious ) but he doesn't try and learn!

He's away out for a walk (usual nightly walk, not a storm off in a huff one ) but we are going to have to talk about it seriously, if things don't start to change then not sure what I'm going to do but not going through this on my own indefinately.

Okay rant over, I have been dying to get that off my chest for ages it is just a bit embarrassing when I keep trying to jump my DH and he aint interested. - never used to be like this (see previous post :pLOL )

Hugs and SBDTA xxx

Lemon_Tree

GTS sorry to hear about your letter, we're all awaiting decisions on the reviews which are going on here. I think the redundancies have started though but i could be wrong.