Trying for a Baby part 5....

rachaelc_2

Hey all.

Well still no AF for me, and was due last Monday so tested this morning and guess what????????????????? Yep, u guessed it, BFN!! Cant believe it, even hubby said he was dissapointed as we both thought it may have happened with me being late. I came off the pill in April and have a 'normal' period since then, and am now eagerly waiting AF - but dont 'feel' like its coming!! Anyone else had similiar experiences so i dont feel like a weirdo????

SBDTA XX XX XX XX

fantafan

phunkles wrote: »

Thank you QQ for confirming my mathematical prowess

i might be having a meh day today

Sorry you're feeling blue Phunkster. I'm having a DH hug-free 4 days so you're one up on me.:cool:

phunkles

awww but absence makes the heart grow fonder Fanta
*i am now going to admit im one of those vomit inducing couples at Euston station who just stand and hug for ages when we get to see each other lol even other people doing it makes me be a little sick in my mouth but hohum i miss hugs when hes not around*
Shall have to bury myself in work these next couple of weeks

pebbles88

hello ladies,

im not currently ttc, but following severe illness and subsequent surgery last year i lost one fallopian tube and the other is only 70& viable.

i have extensive scar tissue thoughout my abdomen, to cut a long story short, from my bikini line to where my underwires sits im 'fused' together.

the surgeons said it isnt a 100% no to being able to have a baby, but that it might be a long road, one for conceiving, the other seeing if my insides will actually stretch to carry to full term.

having children never really worried me before, i assumed i had all the time in the world, but my surgery, and everything else that happened around it has really changed me. its as though i can hear my clock ticking.

so, what i am wondering is, is there any way that i can test to see if im actually ovulating? my cycle has been all over the place, from 19 days, up to 42!

i have been reading about the cbfm, but that is very pricey to me, and if poss i would like to try a cheaper option first.

i have seen some of you discussing poas ovulation tests. how do they work, have people found them helpful?

i appreciate my question isnt exactly on thread, but would apreciate any pointers on the subject. if it makes any diff, the surgeons did say i would qualify for fast track fertility help, whatever that means?

its all new to me. I have got a application for helping me track my periods, but i struggle to understand it. my 'fluid' doesnt seem to match up with what it says it should be for my cycle??

thank you in advance. xx

missymoo81

yes rachael I have hun, usually get AF the day after testing, when I'm late, by cycles when I came off the pill went up to 38 days and I was convinced I was PG but it was just my body settling down, not sure why it happens just does. fingers crossed that it still might end up being a BFP for you though hun.

Punkles I feel your pain hun, my OH works on the rigs and does 5 weeks away and 3 weeks at home, gets you down after a little while doesn't it, but then we have extra special times when he does come home. I'm one of those hugging on the doorstep type people that hangs on for dear life until he physically absolutely has to go otherwise he'll miss his flight!! The things we do for love hey ) x

missymoo81

hey pebbles hun I would love to help but don't have a clue, I'm sure one of the other helpful lot will be along soon though to give you lots of help and advice, they're nice like that.

Take care

Missy

phunkles

Pebbles I honestly cant answer you im afraid im sure someone helpful will be here soon enough to help though

Missy Im glad im not alone on the holding on til last minute in a hug

missymoo81

Nope you're not alone, I hang on tight for every tiny little second

missymoo81

right am off to sleeps now, have to get up at 0530, oh how I love my job...... or not as the case may be....... bring on BFP's so I can go on maternity leave and never go back and be a lovely much happier, working part time SAHM

nights xx

phunkles

and I thought I had it bad with a 6.18 start Night missy x sweet dreams x
(part of me thinks bring on the bfp so I can stop working )