Trying for a Baby part 5....

fantafan

QQuaver wrote: »

Fantafan! Glad to see you back! Since your OH is under stress, it is perhaps good idea to leave baby making for now. But you should tell him you don't like being a punch bag for his issues;)

Only an emotional punchbag. The crockery suffered physically not me. Am planning to go away this weekend as I can see going back to work might start stressing him out over the weekend.
x

gettingthereslowly

FantaFan - glad to hear that you are ok and sending you lots of hugs. Really hope that you can sort things out with DH

Phunkles - Totally understand where you are coming from but you know where we all are if you need us. Big hugs

Primmer - Sorry to hear AF came! Really thought that this was the month for us both but sadly didn't turn out that way. Sending you lots of PMA

Congrats to Ms Piggy on your BFP - Hope you have a happy and healthy 8 months

Tinks - Good luck for tom xxx

BIG HUGS to anyone that needs one and PMA for all xx

CD5 for me AF slowly going (yay :j) so back on the bding and TTC front. Really getting down about the girl in work. Driving me batty now. Shes a lovely girl but OH MY GOD!!!!! is driving me mad with every comment of "i cant believe i've got to give up smoking, baby doesnt like chocolate, and i'm showing already" Shes 6 wks !!!!!!!!! :mad:

Taking alot of deep breaths and putting my head phones on so i dont have to listen :rotfl:

Sticky baby dust to all xxx

Primmer

GTS - hugs Hun, how annoying and not what you want to hear! There was a girl where I work who when only a few weeks pregnant would walk around with her zip undone as she was getting so big! I am sure it will be your tine soon, fingers crossed for both of us for this cycle.

dustystar02

Perdi wrote: »

dusty - I had a couple of cycles like that. It would start in the morning then nothing all afternoon, start again the next morning then it'd !!!!!! off again! Usually by the third day it'd show properly so I was counting that as CD1. Those cycles I had a really long period as well, since then they've started normally and been light and short (worringly so!).

Well I am classing tues and weds as spotting days and so yesterday was CD1 although I'm still not as heavy or suffering cramps like I normally do. Am struggling to fit into clothes though which I am putting down to AF and not the obscene amount of chocolate I've ate this week :rotfl:

phunkles wrote: »

I tested today and got a BFN cd31 normally cd28 (been ssing an awful lot and actually expected 2 lines this time) so on that note im bowing out from posting and not preventing anymore. Ill continue to lurk if thats ok with everyone but posting and being on lists I think isnt for me at this point.

Hugs phunkles, I'm not keen to go on the list either. I feel it adds even more pressure to me and I'm not coping with it as it is. I am just trying to take each day as it comes and not to get too obsessed about it. Easier said then done though.

Tinks - hope all goes well for you tomorrow. Be sure to add some pics here.

MV - Happy Birthday for tomorrow too (hope I got that right )

FF - good to see you here. Was worried about you. I'm not going to offer advice but i will say every relationship has it's difficulties. Try and take one day at a time and not stress about the future. Come here to vent any time you like..x

Well, officially classing today as CD2. Need to ring docs on monday for results of 2nd blood test to see if my progesterone levels are low.
OH is being awkward about getting his swimmers tested, I keep getting "i'm ok, there's nothing wrong with me". I know my docs won't go any further with me until he has been tested. Men and their egos..!

Hope you all have a lovely weekend, we're planning a trip to the seaside on sunday if this weather keeps up.

See you on monday...xx

QQuaver

dustystar02 wrote: »

OH is being awkward about getting his swimmers tested, I keep getting "i'm ok, there's nothing wrong with me". I know my docs won't go any further with me until he has been tested. Men and their egos..!

And it's far more easier test than what we'll have to go through;)

sleepytiger

AF is late again. I refuse to test until past my longest cycle in recent months which was 42 days....

Sorry to hear about the BFN phunkles. I'm glad you'll still be lurking though. I intend to do the same after AF arrives and TTC goes on hold.

Good luck for the blessing tomorrow tinks. I'm still waiting for OH to propose. The naughty man keeps saying he will, but never does.

Metranil_Vavin

Hi girls - flying visit from me as have the day off today and OH and I have been busy in the garden making the most of the glorious weather.

Day didnt start off well. I tested this morning as I wanted to know if I can drink this w/e, and of course got another BFN. I'm CD26 today (the day AF showed last month), so I'm pretty sure I'm out this month as even if I was due on in a day or two, surely a FR test would show something?

Ended up getting into a row with OH..not good..I think he finds me getting upset very hard to deal with and can be a bit snappy and unsympathetic with me. Ah well. I intend to have a few glasses of wine this evening. Right or wrong, I deserve a treat I think.

Dusty thank you so much..it is tomorrow Got the family coming over and going for a meal.

FF - glad you are still about. I got your PM late last night..sorry I havent had a chance to reply, but I think you are doing the right thing by giving both of you a break. Stay around and let me know how you are getting on x

So sad to hear Grateful's news on the mc board..why oh why does it have to happen to anyone?

Metranil_Vavin

..ps I am going to order a CBFM. OH's mum and dad sent me a cheque for my birthday for £50, so am going to take advantage of the deal on Amazon

gratefulforhelp_2

MV the way I am trying to look at it, and this is just for me, not to trivialise it for anyone else, is that I would rather the sonographer got "that face" at 12 weeks than at 20 weeks.

Back to the drawing board!

sleepytiger

Oh grateful I'm so sorry hon. Massive hugs.