Trying for a Baby part 5....

tinkwings

Sunshine12 wrote: »

Can I join please?

Name: Sunshine12
Age: 37
TTC #1
Started trying: Feb 2010

Of course you can Welcome :A

QQuaver

Hi and Welcome Sunshine!:j
Do you chart or use opks?

QQuaver

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

AF came on CD27 this month too, which is earlier than my usual CD 29 - 31 days. Should I average them out to try counting again for next month do you think?

Mine has been always all over the place, so I don't know:D
Perhaps take the 31 days as a guide for testing, but for ov, take all the cycles together so you have every possibility covered:cool:

Welcome iainsmum:)
My mum got pregnant (for #2) when she gave up and sold all the baby stuff, so that may be the way to go:D

Metranil_Vavin

tinkwings wrote: »

I am having a downer day today :(:(:(

I know I am not PG this month and feel like I have a little green eyed monster for those with BFP's don't get me wrong I am SSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO happy for you I could burst but just wish it was me :o:o:o Sorry :o:o:o

I think I need to get on a start taking control of what I want to do & the things that I need to sort out & stop the stressing about getting PG as I don't think it helps me at all. If anything I think it makes me feel like I am going crazy :mad:

Sorry no PMA today

Tinks dont worry, I'm totally there with you. And dont forget that those who have had BFP's recently had those dark times on here too where they were envious of others and finding PMA hard to dig out.

It WILL be your turn soon..and mine..and all the other fab birds who post here

We all have days of thinking its never going to happen, we've all been there. Hang on in hon. X

Q thanks for the tip.

twinklie

Right seriously WHY is AF late. I know I physically can't be pregnant but my head still wants me to poas just to check. WHY??

Man, I do my own head in. Grrr. And I've just realised I've forgotten to put my food timer on! ARGH!

gizmodo_2

twinklie wrote: »

Right seriously WHY is AF late. I know I physically can't be pregnant but my head still wants me to poas just to check. WHY??

Man, I do my own head in. Grrr. And I've just realised I've forgotten to put my food timer on! ARGH!

How late are you? AF's are funny things. I'm beginning to think just wanting to make a baby adds to the stress even though we might not think we're stressed. I was a week late last month and I've never been late before - couldn't understand it at all.

I had a tiny bit of blood in my CM today CD12, so a bit weird. It was sort of like when I had blood after a smear test, so maybe my cervix got knocked? OK that's probably a really stupid thing to say - but I don't have any other ideas!

Been over on the PG thread and looks like Kindof had her baby, although no real info at the mo. Can't wait for her birth story.

I might be getting way ahead of myself here, but I don't have anyone to talk to IRL about baby stuff (aside from OH). Have you guys thought about Maternity leave and what you might take? We're currently saving - got £2k so far - ideally need about £4k to scrape by. That's for 7.5 months leave. If we save anymore then it'll mean more leave or living a bit more comfortably.

twinklie

I'm not silly late...but I've been getting all the pains and nothings been happening for a week now. I'm so cross with my body. Technically I'm not even ttc anymore...well not for now. But I guess once you've started you never truly stop.

gizmodo_2

twinklie wrote: »

I'm not silly late...but I've been getting all the pains and nothings been happening for a week now. I'm so cross with my body. Technically I'm not even ttc anymore...well not for now. But I guess once you've started you never truly stop.

Sorry, get people mixed up. When are you starting again?

Metranil_Vavin

Twinkle would it be worth POAS?

When you say it's not possible you could be preg, is that absolutely definite?

twinklie

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Twinkle would it be worth POAS?

When you say it's not possible you could be preg, is that absolutely definite?

Alas, I imagine it is. Not seen much of DH this month. Grrr. Unless I had a period last month and was pregnant already - plus we would of had to have burst his love juice holder (what he calls em not me), which I don't think we did. Hoooo hum.

We'll start again in about 2 and a half years.