Trying for a Baby part 5....

pukkamum

sleepytiger wrote: »

Evening ladies.

Congrats on the BFPs ladies.

And no Mv you're not being selfish. Think we've all had that internal strop when yet another person announces their pregnancy and you so desperately want it. I'll admit that I sometimes get that even in here. I'm always so happy for the BFPers, but still hearing that wee voice quietly saying "Why can't it be me". To make matters worse, I have a friend who has "the perfect life". She's married to the guy she's been with since uni, they're blissfully happy, got brilliant jobs, shiny new cars, a big house, and they've just had a baby, without any effort. And although I love her to pieces sometimes I just want something bad to happen to them (not death or anything, just a minor setback - maybe a plumbing problem or their kitchen to flood) just because its been too easy for them. I'm a terrible person.

CD3 for me, which is good, because it means another go at fertilising that damn egg, but had pains in my side like ov pain. Is it possible to ov during AF?? Puzzled.

Be really careful about letting the bad thoughts run away with you , am sooo ashamed to admit i felt the same about my friend she was the same lovely life, house DH etc got PG on the FIRST MONTH of trying with ONE sex session!!!!!
I meanwhile was three years into trying and had just been diagnosed with endo.
I too had the "would serve her right if something happened to her" thoughts in a very emotional day, she then gave birth at 28 weeks and her daughter is now severly disabled.
Now i know it was nothing to do with my thoughts but i had a LOT of guilt to get through on top of everthing else!!!!!

Stay positive love and don't feel bad we all have those thoughts just keep perspective.:)

tinkwings

QQuaver wrote: »

Was it a gum issue?

I don't like dentists, haven't been for a while, but I don't have any cavities/fillings since I was a kid.

Dentists are usually very impressed and asks me what I eat etc:cool: (Same as other members of my family who are having their fillings done at the same time:p).

They are not sure I had samonella poisoning when I was PG and my teeth seemed to dis intergrate:eek:. It was pretty nasty. I also had a flair up of my winsdom teeth and ended up having surgery on them 2 weeks after giving birth:eek:. It will mean that I will have to be very careful next time around

tinkwings

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Tinks - sorry to hear you missed out on jiggy last night. i'm always shattered in the evenings too. Modern life is rubbish!

CD23 for me today. I've (90%) decided that if AF hasnt reaered her ugly head by Saturday, I'm gonna test. I have a good friends birthday do on sat night, and I'm swaying between going on the train and having a few drinks, or driving and being good. It'll be an early test (slapped wrists all round), and I may get a BFM either way, but...well I'm kind of justifying it to myself!

I'm nervous even thinking about it

Thanks MV I am looking at is as one day sperm recovery for DH !

As it seems that this morning have been harping on about everyother day I am being + On the plus side I am on CD13 and on the month we got caught I got my LH surge on CD13 and we were at it like bunnies from that day :rotfl:

I would be nervous too honey sending huge hugs. You test when it is right for YOU. You are the one who knows what will be best for you. After all we have been through I am right with you. :A

There is part of me that thinks I am making excuses for not DTD so that I don't get PG so that I won't m/c again. I must sound like a total freak but I think it is how I feel The thing I want most it also the one thing that totally terrifies me the most. TOTAL FREAK :(

gettingthereslowly

Big Hugs Dusty Stupid AF! :mad: but on the positive CD1 of a new cycle

Tink - Never in a million yrs would any of us think that you are a freak! You just need to do what is right for you. Lots of big hugs and PMA being sent your way and bucket loads of sticky dust xxxxx

Feel really bad that I still have not been to see a friend in work who had her baby 2 wks ago been so super jealous of her entire preg. She conceived around the time of my wedding or honeymoon so had the whole "this should be you" off everyone else. Now today my other friend has said her due date has been changed to my first wedding anniversary. Sure someone is trying to rub salt in the wound!!!! I do joke with her though that a vase is a good enough pressie and a baby is a bit much! :rotfl:

Also got a lovely little belly on me at the mo :eek: Hubby did stupidly make a comment last night that if anyone saw me undressing they'd think i was preg :mad: Very quickly took that back when it was ssssoooo obvious that the comment did upset me when i'm still in the middle of AF!!! And i'm always accused of opening my mouth before my brain engages :cool:

Oh well. Half day for me today :j Nothing exciting being done though. Just catching up on lots of jobs grrr!

Sticky baby dust to all xxxxxxxxxxx

Sammy_Girl

Morning Ladies,

Dusty - Sorry the witch got you. Huge ((((hugs))))

MV - Good luck for the testing. How long are your cycles usually? Fingers crossed for you

Tinks - Sorry about the teeth issues. Hope they stay nice and healthy in the next pregnancy. And yes. the one day break will be good for DH's swimmers ready for when you OV Good luck with your reflexology

CD12 for me, and I prob should be OV'ing tomorrow or Sat. Still haven't dtd yet, which isn't really helping lol. Hopefully I can get one in today before DH goes to work.

Hope everyone has a fab day. Hugs and sticky baby dust to all x

tinkwings

gettingthereslowly wrote: »

Tink - Never in a million yrs would any of us think that you are a freak! You just need to do what is right for you. Lots of big hugs and PMA being sent your way and bucket loads of sticky dust xxxxx

Sammy_Girl wrote: »

Morning Ladies,

Tinks - Sorry about the teeth issues. Hope they stay nice and healthy in the next pregnancy. And yes. the one day break will be good for DH's swimmers ready for when you OV Good luck with your reflexology

Thanks ladies :A

I am hoping that the reflexology will help me get into a good head space and feel more positive about the whole situation.

Life is never easy and yet we all still get up every day and face the world.

Metranil_Vavin

Morning Sammy

My cycles are between 28 and 30 days long..I'm fairly regular too which is good

tinkwings

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

My cycles are between 28 and 30 days long..I'm fairly regular too which is good

HI MV when do YOU want to test???

I know I will be in the same position as you so you have my love, thoughts and hugs xoxo :A

Sammy_Girl

Hi MV,

Officially, I would say wait until CD30 to test if no AF. But I know that's hard, so test when you're ready, Saturday is it? Sending loads of positive vibes your way xx

Tinks - Good luck for your reflexology sesh. I can't wait for mine on sat! Can I ask how much yours cost, as I have nothing to compare to. Mine is going to be £40 an hour. Is that about right? Seems quite pricey.

Right, I'm off to get ready for the Job Centre. Hmm, wonder who I will get today. Never had the same person twice lol.

Super sticky stuff to all
x

mennie

gizmodo wrote: »

@mennie - even if the diet changes and supplements make no difference towards fertility they will surely make a difference to yours and babies health when you're pregnant. What changes have you made? I'm just taking Pregnacare at the moment, and have gone wheat free (but for other reasons).

I have cut out caffeine and alcohol and fizzy drinks. I drink lots of green, fennel, nettle and dandelion tea.

I have cut out white carbs just generally included more fibre and leafy green veg.

I am leaning towards a detox programme, but not being too rigid. I body brush daily, turn the shower cold for the last few minutes every morning, epsom salts bath twice a week, self massage, aromatherapy. It wont help me get pg, but is relaxing me and helping me lose weight ( and cellulite!!)

I have decided to apply for another job, i currenlty commute 3 hours a day to quite a stressful job. I have applied for a much less stressful job that is 20 minutes walk from home.

Sticky baby dust to all x