Trying for a Baby part 5....

Primmer

Welcome fantafan, any questions just ask and someone here will know the answer. List of abbreviations is at page 1 which helps on here.

Metranil_Vavin

Welcome fantafan

daleigha

Hi fanfan!! and everyone else!!

gizmodo - I was also frightened by OBEM!! It was the pain on that Thai girl's face that done it for me!! And she was in labour for sooo long!! And the hand thing..... I'm getting queasy just thinking about it! :eek:DH kept asking me am I sure I want to do this lol!! But I must admit I had a little cry when their wee baby was born and they cried!! Defo speak to your counsellor - maybe a planned c-section would be an option for you?

Princessk1 - I was so like that in the first few months of TTC!! This time though I'm not as bad - trying to be more relaxed about it & not put life on hold in the meantime!!

Aww tinkwings - I too think that's a perfectly normal feeling to have....I've never had a MC and can't imagine how painful it must be, and it's natural to be scared of the possibly of going through it again. ((hugs)) for you x

Not much exciting happening in my TTC world atm.... was having a sneaky nosey at the maternity policy in my work and it seems they give more than SMP so that's cheered me up a bit!! I was stressing about surviving on SMP alone!!

D xx

tinkwings

Welcome fantafan

phunkles

Evening lovelies
congrats on bfps and welcome fantafan


Because I know theres no chance of me getting a bfp this month im slightly amused by the fact that for the first time ever im paying more attention to my aches and pains and I have concluded
- i get sore boobs
- i feel sick
- i get spotty
- i get tired (could be due to work load increasing )
- i have a sore back (could be linked to kidney thing though)
- i have stomach ache
for about a week and a half before af is due
so please remind me that SS is a waste of time in future as i seem to have the symptoms going on normally anyway (including a mouth that tastes of blood:eek:)

Have never really paid attention to stuff pre af pre not trying to prevent but now i know im a definate no chance its weird cause if there was a chance i know id be going OMG :eek: look at my symptoms lol
amused me anyway

Penny35_2

Tinks it normal I think, we really want a baby but after the mc I am too scared as I dont think I could cope a second time. So we are using the CBFM to know when we need to be careful !!! Bit of a different use for it. Hope I feel able to try soon as I am 37 this year so time is not on my side.
Penny
xx

BigSister2008

well - AF has now gone, and me and DH had lovely romantic night albeit abit tipsy so off now to DTD no point in wasting time

BigSister2008

Oh - welcome fantafan too drink made me overlook the posts

Good luck and sprinkling loads of babydust over everyone DTD tonight

TwiceasNice_2

Welcome fantafan.

Woke up feeling good instead of knackered (as i have been feeling recently).

I hope you all have fab days!

Take care

x

LoopyLinz

Hi Ladies

Hoping someone can help me.......I will try to keep this short!

I suffer from RA and stopped my meds in Nov as we want to TTC. Since then I have been making a note of my cycles lengths, etc to try to work out when 'the best time' would be to.........well you know! We cant actually start TTC until May as I have to have 6 months of no meds first but so far we have cycles of 26, 24, 25 and currently on day 31 (not sure what thats all about!) Is there any way I can work out my most fertile time?

Thanks
Linz xox