Trying for a Baby part 5....

sleepytiger

Hehe my sex drive ebbs and flows, sometimes I can't get enough of it, other times I find myself thinking "oh god, not again. Please. I just want to sleep/watch this tv programme/ have a cup of tea". And sometimes I'd kill for a premature ejaculator because OH takes forever, to ahem, finish (if at all) and it gets a bit abrasive. To be honest, I think there's this pressure from the media that we should be up for it at all times and it should always be brilliant, but its only recently that it was acknowledged that women did enjoy sex. Even 50 years ago it was the norm to consider it a bit of a chore. Your sex drive should peak around OV though which is handy, and OH should find us at our most irresistable, so should help.

**confuzzled**

twinklie wrote: »

My DH is VERY understanding. Although with us both being ill, neither of us are interested atm. I had a lousy start in all things sexual with an abusive boyf and think that's whats properly done me in! I just find that it's something to just get over as quick as possible so I can get on with stuff I need to do. It just bores me. :think:

sorry to hear that....amazing how men can stuff us up innit!

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

It can be a bit boring Twink, but I think it's the same for everyone.

I hate to say it, but as long as OH is having a good time, enough to *flourish* (IYKWIM), then that's the main thing!!!!! :rotfl::T

sleepytiger wrote: »

Hehe my sex drive ebbs and flows, sometimes I can't get enough of it, other times I find myself thinking "oh god, not again. Please. I just want to sleep/watch this tv programme/ have a cup of tea". And sometimes I'd kill for a premature ejaculator because OH takes forever, to ahem, finish (if at all) and it gets a bit abrasive. To be honest, I think there's this pressure from the media that we should be up for it at all times and it should always be brilliant, but its only recently that it was acknowledged that women did enjoy sex. Even 50 years ago it was the norm to consider it a bit of a chore. Your sex drive should peak around OV though which is handy, and OH should find us at our most irresistable, so should help.

Awww I feel so lucky now:o We enjoy a healthy sex life(toys included;)) and hopefully always will....admittedly sometime we just cant be bothered but its always been a minimum of once a week:) Yeah sometimes I can't be bothered but on those days I make an extra special effort coz if I feel sexy I can act sexy IYSWIM

Sammy_Girl

Hello lovelies,

thanks for all the good luck messages. They worked. I don't want to jinx it but it went well and we've booked a second interview for next week. Eek!!

Legs - lovely to see you hon. Make sure you stick around, meerkat and all. You are a very funny lady. How's your job search going?

What's happened to SSL? Where's the update?? Who's due the next BFP??

Hugs and sticky baby dust to all x

Ms_Piggy_2

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

It can be a bit boring Twink, but I think it's the same for everyone.

I hate to say it, but as long as OH is having a good time, enough to *flourish* (IYKWIM), then that's the main thing!!!!! :rotfl::T

Try doing it with a toddler watching - that really *is* off-putting!! :eek:

**confuzzled**

Sammy_Girl wrote: »

Hello lovelies,

thanks for all the good luck messages. They worked. I don't want to jinx it but it went well and we've booked a second interview for next week. Eek!!

Legs - lovely to see you hon. Make sure you stick around, meerkat and all. You are a very funny lady. How's your job search going?

What's happened to SSL? Where's the update?? Who's due the next BFP??

Hugs and sticky baby dust to all x

Oh wow...well done you:T:T:T:T I'll keep everything crossed for next week now:D

Ms_Piggy wrote: »

Try doing it with a toddler watching - that really *is* off-putting!! :eek:

:eek::rotfl::eek::rotfl::eek::rotfl:

sleepytiger

The annoying thing is that I used to have a really high sex drive. Then one night I got followed and attacked and the police didnt believe me, and my sex drive took a hit.

Wow. Toddlers watching. Didn't think about how complicated that would make it.:D

well done Sammy. By the way, I also think you tested too early. Wait til at least 17dpo for an accurate result. It aint over til you're surfing the crimson wave.

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sleepytiger wrote: »

It aint over til you're surfing the crimson wave.

Ew, gross:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

sleepytiger

**confuzzled** wrote: »

Ew, gross:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

sorry, I was bored with Aunt Flo :rotfl:Didn't mean to upset delicate pregnant tummies


Actually, there are some strange names for it. On the blob, on the rag, got the painters in, got my jams...

**confuzzled**

sleepytiger wrote: »

sorry, I was bored with Aunt Flo :rotfl:Didn't mean to upset delicate pregnant tummies


Actually, there are some strange names for it. On the blob, on the rag, got the painters in, got my jams...

:rotfl:Stomach aint too delicate yet!! I bet all those names were made up by blokes an' all!

sleepytiger

men are so squeamish about the whole period thing aren't they? I can almost make oh throw up my mentioning that my flow was a bit clotty. (TMI alert) If only he knew about the giant clots that stretch when you try to get rid of them....

I remember there was a girl at school who had the nickname Jam Donuts, because a boy had a rummage(!) when she had AF. Poor girl.