Trying for a Baby part 5....

gizmodo_2

sleepytiger wrote: »

Not fair!! I want my BFP :stamp foot smiley: Not happening this month though, as we've only dtd once and not even at the right time. First I had late AF, then that went away and we dtd for practice then he got ill, then I got ill, then he got ill again, and then I caught whatever he had.. Was cuddling my sisters baby and she's so gorgeous, and even though I try not to think about it, my baby would be the same age. I'm so broody!!!

:slinks out ashamedly:

Where in your cycle are you? You'll have to make up for it this/next month and BD loads

**confuzzled**

gizmodo wrote: »

ha ha - yeah it's definitely part of the getting old. I was extremely excited when I got my blinds the other week They are cool though (they are see through like net curtains, but you can't see in from the outside). Yep, sad!

Ooooooo giz where did you get them from?? any linkys???:) Been looking for summat like that for ages...can you see in from outside when it's dark and the lights are on inside?? Did that make any sense? lol

Sleepy sorry you're feeling down hun:( Its carp innit! Maybe dose yourselves up on multi-vits in preperation for next ov...he shouldn't have an excuse then;):D

Metranil_Vavin

Eurggh yes today is really d r a g g i n g ..and I still have my horrible Turks to see before the end of the day.

CD 10 for me today, so all being well should be ov'ing early to mid next week. Got my FR ov sticks out and put them on the shelf in the bathroom ready for use..things like that may seem daft but they all help me feel like I'm moving towards my goal again

Poor Giz (((hugs))) sorry that the whole DTD thing makes you anxious. I find it a bit of a chore quite often..dunno why. When I was younger I was a bit of a nympho!

I think that the pressure of ttc can make it all a bit chore-like too at times.

twinklie

I've always found it a chore and yet I think my DH is to die for!! He's amazing, the only guy I've been with that I truly fancy! I'm still not really all that interested though. Hmmmm... I think I was made broken. Ho hum!

dustystar02

**confuzzled** wrote: »

Yes sammy it's only 13dpo...too early:p You should wait til at least 17dpo:) Good luck with the interview...skirt or trouser..stand outside with your skirt on and if you can stand it go for the skirt, you never know, might be a pervy bloke:rotfl:
I'm feeling ok thanks.......it feels unreal coz apart from the wind and wanting to throw up at the smell of jam I feel no different...phoned to get appointment with Midwife this morning and it looks like I'll have to text:eek: to get an app! Is it me or is that just a bit too informal??!
Good luck with the interview...got everything crossed for you xxx

Have you tried Direct to Midwife service? I work in the NHS and have been promoting this service, saves waiting for tyour GP. google it and see if there is a service in your area. The number is 0800 121 4400

xx

gizmodo_2

**confuzzled** wrote: »

Ooooooo giz where did you get them from?? any linkys???:) Been looking for summat like that for ages...can you see in from outside when it's dark and the lights are on inside?? Did that make any sense? lol

Sleepy sorry you're feeling down hun:( Its carp innit! Maybe dose yourselves up on multi-vits in preperation for next ov...he shouldn't have an excuse then;):D

Yeah you can see in when dark outside and light on inside (like nets). We have curtains as well for night time. I like the blinds though because our living room looks onto the front, so [STRIKE]now I can be nosey and noone can see me[/STRIKE] now we can have privacy while still getting daylight.

They are John Lewis (http://www.johnlewis.com/1908/Product.aspx)

Metranil_Vavin

twinklie wrote: »

I've always found it a chore and yet I think my DH is to die for!! He's amazing, the only guy I've been with that I truly fancy! I'm still not really all that interested though. Hmmmm... I think I was made broken. Ho hum!

I think I'm just lazy :rotfl:

Mind you, OH is the same...happy enough when we get on the job, but he needs to be given a bit of a nudge from time to time!

**confuzzled**

MV & Twink - re: sex drive think it's a combination of age(lets face it, its less of a novelty as you get older!) and being comfortable with your OH...and if you didn't have a high sex drive to begin with then it can seem like a chore.......I know it does for my DH...thought it was me to begin with but he reckons I'm a nympho and I reckon he has no drive at all:rotfl:

Dusty thanks for that:) I've text the midwife but still waiting to hear anything.....blimmin nightmare, should've tested on monday when you lot told me too:p

Thanks for link Giz

twinklie

**confuzzled** wrote: »

MV & Twink - re: sex drive think it's a combination of age(lets face it, its less of a novelty as you get older!) and being comfortable with your OH...and if you didn't have a high sex drive to begin with then it can seem like a chore.......I know it does for my DH...thought it was me to begin with but he reckons I'm a nympho and I reckon he has no drive at all:rotfl:

My DH is VERY understanding. Although with us both being ill, neither of us are interested atm. I had a lousy start in all things sexual with an abusive boyf and think that's whats properly done me in! I just find that it's something to just get over as quick as possible so I can get on with stuff I need to do. It just bores me. :think:

Metranil_Vavin

It can be a bit boring Twink, but I think it's the same for everyone.

I hate to say it, but as long as OH is having a good time, enough to *flourish* (IYKWIM), then that's the main thing!!!!! :rotfl::T