Trying for a Baby part 5....

dinky_dragon

Yeah he does, it's not even something we can compromise on. It's either now or 3 or 4 years. I want it to be now so we get the 'baby phase' out of the way together (DD is only 1) so they are into the same things at the same time, I get to enjoy them together etc and he says we should wait so we can enjoy Ruby, sleep and a semi-active social life before starting again. We couldn't have more different views!

Sorry about ranting, I know it's off topic I just know you're all lovely and won't mind xx

retro_bluebell

dinky_dragon wrote: »

Penny I can't believe how long this is dragging out for you...:kisses3: hope my (not intentionally creepy) cyber kiss makes you feel better. Altho, you know, I doubt it!

Not having a good day today, OH now saying he doesn't want to try for #2. I am GUTTED. He says from the day we got together its just been frantic, got together, moved in pretty quick, had DD soon after...written down it doesn't seem that bad but I know where he's coming from, says he just wants to chill for a bit and try again in a few years. I just can't believe how upset I am. I don't want to leave this lovely thread as much as anything else!x

think men underestimate woman desire to have a baby..but I also think we underestimate that for a man becoming a dad again can be a scary thing....your relationship sounds like mine with my OH we got together I December moved into together in following April then I was pregnant with DD in the June.....you need to sit and have a good talk with him about why he wants to wait...maybe hes worried you cant afford it...or maybe he just wants you 2 to have fun for a bit beforehand (in which case I recommend a weekend away:p) ...its something you both have to agree but to agree you need to understand each others point of view- know what I mean? Hope you can sort things out x

**confuzzled**

dinky_dragon wrote: »

Not having a good day today, OH now saying he doesn't want to try for #2. I am GUTTED. He says from the day we got together its just been frantic, got together, moved in pretty quick, had DD soon after...written down it doesn't seem that bad but I know where he's coming from, says he just wants to chill for a bit and try again in a few years. I just can't believe how upset I am. I don't want to leave this lovely thread as much as anything else!x

Tbh after all that I think he's right:o Sorry probably not what you wanted to hear:o Last year(09) was our quiet year, wasn't intentional just didn't get pg straightaway...but we've had a hectic relationship too:D(met/moved in/got engaged in 06, bought a house/set fire to it:o/changed jobs/planned wedding in 07, moved back home after living at ILs/got married in 08 and 09 was nice and peaceful:))It does take it out of you, besides after all that action he'll probably be bored in March and decide he's ready to ttc again:D:D

Red_Rose wrote: »

fuzz You should come to my office & sit at my chair (just read your post from y'day) :rotfl:

Now if you;d have said that at 1pm I'd have been there like a shot!!!! Can't get out of work now:p:rotfl: We seriously should meet for lunch or summat 1 day..before you leave work coz it'll be easier for you then:)

Red_Rose

**confuzzled** wrote: »

Now if you;d have said that at 1pm I'd have been there like a shot!!!! Can't get out of work now:p:rotfl: We seriously should meet for lunch or summat 1 day..before you leave work coz it'll be easier for you then:)

We should! I leave end of Feb, but hoping to get another job in the same area. Please get a BFP so we can be preggie buddies (that sounds really wierd! ).

dinky_dragon

**confuzzled** wrote: »

Tbh after all that I think he's right:o Sorry probably not what you wanted to hear:o Last year(09) was our quiet year, wasn't intentional just didn't get pg straightaway...but we've had a hectic relationship too:D(met/moved in/got engaged in 06, bought a house/set fire to it:o/changed jobs/planned wedding in 07, moved back home after living at ILs/got married in 08 and 09 was nice and peaceful:))It does take it out of you, besides after all that action he'll probably be bored in March and decide he's ready to ttc again:D:D

Now if you;d have said that at 1pm I'd have been there like a shot!!!! Can't get out of work now:p:rotfl: We seriously should meet for lunch or summat 1 day..before you leave work coz it'll be easier for you then:)

No I want peoples opinions I don't think everyone has to side with me! SET FIRE TO IT??? I'll have to put that to OH - why wait? Yes it's been hectic but we haven't even set fire to our house yet!! I know it does, tis true, I'm just feeling doe eyed about another baby at the min and I know we can afford it, got holidays booked for June and...ah I'm rambling

Thanks for your words xxx

**confuzzled**

Red_Rose wrote: »

We should! I leave end of Feb, but hoping to get another job in the same area. Please get a BFP so we can be preggie buddies (that sounds really wierd! ).

Yup that does sound weird:p I will be trying my hardest to get a bfp but in the meantime I will be stalking you..and not just on here *MWAH HA HA HAAAAAAAAAAA* thats an evil laugh btw:)

Will keep an ear out for jobs then;)....look at businesses on pride park, theres usually loads jobs around there:)

**confuzzled**

dinky_dragon wrote: »

No I want peoples opinions I don't think everyone has to side with me! SET FIRE TO IT??? I'll have to put that to OH - why wait? Yes it's been hectic but we haven't even set fire to our house yet!! I know it does, tis true, I'm just feeling doe eyed about another baby at the min and I know we can afford it, got holidays booked for June and...ah I'm rambling

Thanks for your words xxx

:rotfl::rotfl:Yup I accidentally fell asleep while cooking..in my defense I was knackered after being til 3am the night before, then getting up at 6am to finish stuff off then doing a full day at work and coming home to cook!!! We moved in 1st Sep 07 and had to move back out again on the 10th Oct:o:rotfl: Got a lovely kitchen from it though...I just thank my lucky stars that 1- we were insured and 2- insurers were brilliant

also for those who want a new kitchen..insurers will redecorate the whole house too coz the smell gets behind all the wallpaper etc..I was well chuffed when I found out:rotfl::rotfl:

Red_Rose

**confuzzled** wrote: »

Yup that does sound weird:p I will be trying my hardest to get a bfp but in the meantime I will be stalking you..and not just on here *MWAH HA HA HAAAAAAAAAAA* thats an evil laugh btw:)

Will keep an ear out for jobs then;)....look at businesses on pride park, theres usually loads jobs around there:)

I've been for an interview there so fingers crossed! Nearly all my jobs since my current one were over there so I agree. Def a good place to find a job! Have you heard anything about the job you applied for the other week?

Should I be scared on the stalking front? :rotfl:

**confuzzled**

Red_Rose wrote: »

I've been for an interview there so fingers crossed! Nearly all my jobs since my current one were over there so I agree. Def a good place to find a job! Have you heard anything about the job you applied for the other week?

Should I be scared on the stalking front? :rotfl:

Where at?!?! I used to work at a law firm over there...opposite Egg! Fingers crossed for you:)
And yes you should be scared:p :rotfl:

mrsmc_3

do evaportion lines appear on every test ?? I poas (again:o), well on 2 coz one was cheapy and one was clearblue. And they came up negative, but i was in sort of a rush coz i was late to meet a friend so i left them in the bathroom, when i came home i was about throw them away and noticed faint postitive lines in both of them ??? I am confused ??? They had been left for about 2 hours and i know your not to read a result after 10 mins so maybe i'm grasping at straws ?? I think i will re test 2moro, but i said yesterday my boobs were very sore and i have been sooooo tired so...... ???