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Power of attorney on the quiet?? Please read

Hyperthetical question at the moment, but to cut a long story short, my M-I-L is in hospital, it is a very accrimonious family and my S-I-L has always been M-I-Ls favourite, and she has very suspect motives. My F-I-L is still alive and is worried that she will try and get power of attorney above him. Can she do this without him knowing and if she did manage it could it be challenged? M-I-L is just about ok , there are 4 other children.
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  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    The website of the Office of the Public Guardian might be helpful to you - it is here:-
    http://www.publicguardian.gov.uk/arrangements/arrangements.htm
  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
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    brooksie wrote: »
    Hyperthetical question at the moment, but to cut a long story short, my M-I-L is in hospital, it is a very accrimonious family and my S-I-L has always been M-I-Ls favourite, and she has very suspect motives. My F-I-L is still alive and is worried that she will try and get power of attorney above him. Can she do this without him knowing and if she did manage it could it be challenged? M-I-L is just about ok , there are 4 other children.

    The simple solution would be for your FIL to be appointed attorney, although of course this would be your MIL's decision - if she is mentally competent to make it.
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  • brooksie
    brooksie Posts: 155 Forumite
    Not sure whether MIL would be classed as fully capable as she does have moments of confusion, so if SIL tries to get power of attorney without FIL knowledge (SIL asked a few questions about it 4 years ago when she was in hospital before) then surely it would be conyestable, but i will try and ring public guardian place on monday
  • margaretclare
    margaretclare Posts: 10,789 Forumite
    MIL cannot appoint anyone as attorney if she is not mentally competent to do so, whether that person is SIL or FIL. She has to know what she is doing and she has to make the appointment - the attorney cannot make it for herself/himself.
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  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
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    brooksie wrote: »
    Not sure whether MIL would be classed as fully capable as she does have moments of confusion, so if SIL tries to get power of attorney without FIL knowledge (SIL asked a few questions about it 4 years ago when she was in hospital before) then surely it would be conyestable, but i will try and ring public guardian place on monday

    Have a read of this section http://www.publicguardian.gov.uk/decisions/objecting-registration-lpa.htm

    My memory is a bit hazy, but I think spouses/civll partners/siblings have to be informed when a donor seeks to appoint an attorney.
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  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    Errata wrote: »
    ...My memory is a bit hazy, but I think spouses/civll partners/siblings have to be informed when a donor seeks to appoint an attorney.

    Doesn't necessarily mean they will be though.
  • tallyhoh
    tallyhoh Posts: 2,318 Forumite
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    I have POA for my FIL & I had to write to his relatives giving them time to object. Otherwise its not legal
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  • pookienoodle
    pookienoodle Posts: 464 Forumite
    edited 17 January 2010 at 9:08PM
    tallyhoh wrote: »
    I have POA for my FIL & I had to write to his relatives giving them time to object. Otherwise its not legal

    there are no safeguards inplace to check that this gets done though
    My late fathers cleaner was able to get a power of attourney without family knowledge.
  • This situation sounds like a really, really good time for you and your father to consult a solicitor, preferably one who specialises in family law. Some offer an initial, free one-hour consultation and even if they don't it would be money worth spending right away imo even if the only outcome is that it puts your and your father's minds at rest. I know I would and I'd charge it to my credit-card if I couldn't afford it
  • tandraig
    tandraig Posts: 2,260 Forumite
    in that case your FIL should apply for POA as soon as possible! see a solicitor is my advice and before you do read the websites the other posters suggested. direct.gov is good too.
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