** Week-end Chat 9th/10th Jan 2010 ~ It's a chilly one! **

rictus123

Claire i feel for you! Hows this come about, i know its easy to say this as an outsider but i wouldnt stick with him if he wasnt making you happy and dont stand for stuff like that. What happen to your arm, sorry i must have missed that.

clairewop

Rictus I have Crerbral Palsy which mainly affects my right arm, I have limited movement and grip hence i cannot hold a round potato lol

He doesn't think he should clean up after anybody and this all came about because i asked him to help clean through, because using a sweeping brush, mop hoover etc plays havock with my back (dr thinks i got a slipped disc) anyways i do it on my own throughout the week and don't ask for much help from him, and my mate accross the road comes over and prepares veg etc for weekly teas and helps me batch cook,

So i don't see why he can't help on the weekend? Does he expect someone to give their weekend up and help me when hes sat on his bum?

bank_of_slate

Claire, what's your avatar picture, is it a bracelet?
...Linda xx

schoolrunmum

Clairewop-he's an arrrssseee....
Yee hah-snowing here!

Butti

Claire,

I'd be tempted to order in food for 1 for tonight and leave him to starve.....what a selfish b.....d. Unfortunately he isn't unique.

When we were over at my sis-in-laws my dad was talking about the period he worked away from home in the 70's. The company wanted to get him an apartment but he wanted to stay at a B&B. As he put it 'I haven't looked after myself up to this point, I don't see why I should start now'. We all just stood there with our mouths open.


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Pooky

Claire - What an utter muppet....I can't believe the mentality of some people. I hope you've told him that sort of behaviour is unacceptable.

sallyx

Claire the large hole has been dug, here is the spade, smack him around the head and shove him in the hole...what a complete arrsse. My husband takes the mick most of the time but if he EVER dared to say something like that I would change the locks and kick him out. I am in shock that this is someone who is supposed to love you?

sallyx

Evening all :wave:

Have been on the go since 7am this morning and finally got in and can sit down for 5 mins. Swimming, popped into weymouth to get picture frame for Mums birthday from Big M&S, Piano lesson, drive home, lunch then walked into my town for elastic to make butterfly wings (forgot to get earlier), home take DD to party, home then back to town as I forgot to print photos off for frame.

Have walked miles today but I have eaten carp hey ho run tomorrow if it doesn't snow tonight!

elfen

Had a chat with Pint. Things are getting sorted; he's even agreed to go down the pub less and spend more time with me. a result i think

Quirkylass

Hi Clare
I am an old poster (Weller) but for various reasons had to leave DFW due to some !!!!!! so now have a new user name and a low post count and to be honest, in the past I have take offence against people joking about hitting their hubbies with spades - sorry Zed (again personal reasons which I won't go into but think I have been a bit (or a lot) too sensitive).

But I have just had to come out of lurkdom to say I don't give a sh*t about how I have felt before, give me the bloody spade and send him up here and I will do the deed myself, he will suffer before he goes in that hole and believe me it takes a lot for me to say that :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

Take care xx Sorry

Hi Sally, thanks for the PM, I am glad I hadn't and yes I did and had a fantastic time and felt very enpowered. Very criptic I know :rotfl::rotfl: