depression

EthelBloggs

ahh ok.. understood.. maybe flatmate could bring her round to the flat afterwards or something?

sounds like me.. the pro-activity I mean, lol

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote:

ahh ok.. understood.. maybe flatmate could bring her round to the flat afterwards or something?

sounds like me.. the pro-activity I mean, lol

Sadly not.

'S' is very withdrawn. It's like she can't handle seeing people too often. She wants too, but because of the damage and hurt, she's scared if she's people too often they will end up hating her and hurting her, so it's going to take time

lol @ you. My flatmate can be a right misery at times

EthelBloggs

yeah.. I see what you mean.. dunno what to suggest then... maybe come up with some activity to invite her along to over the wkeend or something?

I can be a right misery too.. although I moan about b/f, I know I'm not the easiest of people to live with at times either

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote:

yeah.. I see what you mean.. dunno what to suggest then... maybe come up with some activity to invite her along to over the wkeend or something?

I can be a right misery too.. although I moan about b/f, I know I'm not the easiest of people to live with at times either

Well, she suggested Tuesday, so I asked her to name the time and place.....and nothing.

So from nice text and flatmate telling me she was really emotional about 'her' song, back to normal again.

I've picked a nice straight forward girl here :rolleyes:

Ahhhhh, flatmate is a right pain. Cheesed off if people don't do things by her rules, but if she can't be bothered, she won't bother telling anyone

EthelBloggs

*sighs* seems we're all good at pickin em aint we? lol

ooh I'm not as bad as your flatmate... if anything I'm the opposite.. go along with what others what rather than what I want too often.. I just find it hard sometimes to have so many people around me.. I like to be on my ownand can get a bit grumpy if ppl are around for too long but then if i'm alone for too long I start feeling isolated and hermit-like

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote:

*sighs* seems we're all good at pickin em aint we? lol

ooh I'm not as bad as your flatmate... if anything I'm the opposite.. go along with what others what rather than what I want too often.. I just find it hard sometimes to have so many people around me.. I like to be on my ownand can get a bit grumpy if ppl are around for too long but then if i'm alone for too long I start feeling isolated and hermit-like

Let's hope it all turns out for the best for all of us!

Finding the balance is hard. We all need 'Me' time, but we also need others.

I hope flatmate has contacted 'S', or it could balls up my relationship too, if 'S' thinks we don't really want her here.

blinky

feelinggood wrote:

Morning Blinky, how are you today?

I'm fine but rather tired - was falling asleep earlier. Wish it was Saturday as I'd be seeing 'R' again :happyhear

Horasio

I really need to vent here:mad:

Guys on here, don't get offended, I do not include you in what I am about to say. It is a generalisation of guys that I come across.

I have tried to do a bank transaction on the phone and waited and passed from pillar to post and my battery went low on the phone, so felt anxious by the time I got to an operator (male).

I hate phone systems anyway, I always get it wrong first time and get anxious by the time I get to the right person.

Anyway, this bloke wasn't very understanding and I'm sure he was deliberately slow to wind me up and generally irritating. I feel some blokes sit there looking smug and enjoy winding women up. I hate myself for getting wound up by it!

Arrrgggh!!!

Horasio

I am sure my anger at males stems from my husband and his ability to upset me. People say, you don't have to get angry but it is difficult when you have them 7 days a week getting on your nerves. I can't take other people being annoying on top. My son is following his example and it is double the irritation.

I always feel in the wrong, even if they do the wrong thing, they twist it and I feel ganged up by them. I hate them and am taking it out on the world. I get argumentative and aggressive to people who are fools.

I liked men before I met my husband, I have had problems with men since.

The men on this thread are great btw - I wish there were more like you:)

Miroslav

I hear movement from Flatmate's room.........No idea if she contacted 'S'........she better have or it's just going to give 'S' another motive to move. Both flatmate and 'S' are rubbish communicators, and it tires me out making so much effort. Today it was trying to get flatmate up to go and meet 'S', usually it's me getting flatmate up trying to get her to college or something, or contacting 'S' with no reply.

My head is being done in!