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  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote:
    I really need to vent here:mad:

    Guys on here, don't get offended, I do not include you in what I am about to say. It is a generalisation of guys that I come across.

    I have tried to do a bank transaction on the phone and waited and passed from pillar to post and my battery went low on the phone, so felt anxious by the time I got to an operator (male).

    I hate phone systems anyway, I always get it wrong first time and get anxious by the time I get to the right person.

    Anyway, this bloke wasn't very understanding and I'm sure he was deliberately slow to wind me up and generally irritating. I feel some blokes sit there looking smug and enjoy winding women up. I hate myself for getting wound up by it!

    Arrrgggh!!!

    Call Centres :mad: I used to work in 2 :rotfl:

    Trust me, some of the women liked winding up customers too :o
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote:
    I am sure my anger at males stems from my husband and his ability to upset me. People say, you don't have to get angry but it is difficult when you have them 7 days a week getting on your nerves. I can't take other people being annoying on top. My son is following his example and it is double the irritation.

    I always feel in the wrong, even if they do the wrong thing, they twist it and I feel ganged up by them. I hate them and am taking it out on the world. I get argumentative and aggressive to people who are fools.

    I liked men before I met my husband, I have had problems with men since.

    The men on this thread are great btw - I wish there were more like you:)

    Well, I had a dislike of women for many years after my ex. I knew they weren't all the same, but women :mad:

    Different now of course :o

    We are all influenced by others, especially negative things.
  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    its people thing.. i dont tink it's men or women specifically.. just people who are crap at times!

    well.. I've half loaded the dishwasher.. taken the bin out.. put some laundry in the washing machine.. lol (still not showered or dressed tho - darent chance the shower in case the delivery men come!)

    b/f phoned, being all nicey nicey.. admitted that he has paranoia at times, pfftt.. tell me something i don't know!!
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  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    its people thing.. i dont tink it's men or women specifically.. just people who are crap at times!

    well.. I've half loaded the dishwasher.. taken the bin out.. put some laundry in the washing machine.. lol (still not showered or dressed tho - darent chance the shower in case the delivery men come!)

    b/f phoned, being all nicey nicey.. admitted that he has paranoia at times, pfftt.. tell me something i don't know!!

    As they say, nothing wrong with the world, just the people in it :o

    Busy Ethel :rotfl: Shower............with the delivery men? :rotfl:

    b/f is crawling :rotfl:
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Okay, so this post wouldn't post before, so try again....



    :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

    Flatmate text 'S' asking to delay shopping trip by 1 hour, after trying to phone her, by phone switched off.

    'S' replied 15 minutes AFTER they were due to meet, saying she couldn't meet today as she now has a support worker meeting and doctor appointment - she didn't have this Wednesday evening!

    So flatmate would have turned up and 'S' would have stood her up, again!

    Flatmate tried phoning 'S' straight after.........phone switched off.

    She's withdrawing :( She's scared but never admits it :( She can't accept 'help' and is frightened of getting close to anyone, especially anyone who doesn't want her for sex or money. She constantly makes things up..........the support worker and doctor excuse has been used so many times. We now aren't sure she had her toe operation, we don't know what to believe anymore, she makes so many things up :( Not nastily, but to put things off, make people believe she's doing well.

    The charity shop thing, never happened.........she pulled out obviously.

    She's struggling bad, and I can't help in any way :cry:
  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    Hmmmm I think miro you have to let her struggle and find her own way.. just let her know that you'll be there when she needs you.. it's difficult and hurtful and I think you're going to have to have more than the patience of a saint :/

    life sucks sometimes :huggs:
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  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    Miroslav wrote:
    As they say, nothing wrong with the world, just the people in it :o

    Busy Ethel :rotfl: Shower............with the delivery men? :rotfl:

    b/f is crawling :rotfl:

    Won't argue with that.. tis true indeed

    lmfao.. depends if they're ugly or not innit ;)


    well.. I don't think crawling is gonna help.. we've been in this situation before and I'm soppy n take him back and then within weeks we're back in a mess again.
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  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Hmmmm I think miro you have to let her struggle and find her own way.. just let her know that you'll be there when she needs you.. it's difficult and hurtful and I think you're going to have to have more than the patience of a saint :/

    life sucks sometimes :huggs:

    Yup, I can only be here when she's ready.............very hard though, especially when I am very fond of her :cry:
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Won't argue with that.. tis true indeed

    lmfao.. depends if they're ugly or not innit ;)


    well.. I don't think crawling is gonna help.. we've been in this situation before and I'm soppy n take him back and then within weeks we're back in a mess again.

    Naughty ethel :p

    Well, hopefully you have learnt from past experiences, however nice it is to believe people have changed.
  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    heeheee.. I can be very nawteee... and yeah, I think I have learned a lot from the past finally..

    dunno what to say more about 'S' really :confused:
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