depression

feelinggood_2

Evening Saz and Miro
Not read the other posts, have I missed anything?
Thing is I know the other guy likes me, he'd ask me out if I was single...

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

Evening Saz and Miro
Not read the other posts, have I missed anything?
Thing is I know the other guy likes me, he'd ask me out if I was single...

You missed the big news.............Britney and 'S' have asked me to inddulge in some Polygamy.............how could I say no

Can I ask why you stay with your OH, if he treats you so poorly? Does he love you? Does he say he does? What do you get positive out of the relationship?

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

I hope she does, she seems too, but I can tell she is confused and thinks it won't last maybe.

I'm just old fashioned, I don't mind admitting I am an old style gentleman, who likes to look after young ladies. I am not British, although I have been here since quite young, and I guess my culture is different. It annoys me when men disrespect their partners. It upsets me when the women stay with those men. I don't meet women, but I won't change my ways, and hopefully one day, someone will appreciate me

I'll be careful with 'S' though, I don't wanna lose her friendship, not now, I've waited over 3 years for this, she is very special to me.

I honestly don't think it's so much a cultural thing, IMHO generally men who respect their partners are as rare as hen's teeth. Saying that I DO KNOW there are some wonderful men out there - I would not wish to suggest all men are the same, far from it. So no - don't change your ways, and yes - one day someone will appreciate you, some day soon I'm sure.

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

You missed the big news.............Britney and 'S' have asked me to inddulge in some Polygamy.............how could I say no

:rotfl: GO for it Did you see those pics of Britney in the paper earlier this week? Lost all her baby pregnancy weight, looking really good. I say go for it

feelinggood_2

Miroslav wrote:

You missed the big news.............Britney and 'S' have asked me to inddulge in some Polygamy.............how could I say no

Can I ask why you stay with your OH, if he treats you so poorly? Does he love you? Does he say he does? What do you get positive out of the relationship?

Yay Miro! That your ultimate Fanatasy then?

I cant leave OH - I'm dependant on him and would have no where else to go unfortunatly
He is a nice bloke, and he does love me. Its acceptable.

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

I honestly don't think it's so much a cultural thing, IMHO generally men who respect their partners are as rare as hen's teeth. Saying that I DO KNOW there are some wonderful men out there - I would not wish to suggest all men are the same, far from it. So no - don't change your ways, and yes - one day someone will appreciate you, some day soon I'm sure.

Maybe, maybe not, but maybe it's because I see British men every day, I think they are worse.

I'm one of those wonderful men, I do have confidence to admit that, just because I know i'm nice.

I won't change, I'm an easy target to be used (Just ask last g/f!!) but I have high standards of females now. Not talking about looks/money, but she has to be a very nice person. I sometimes wonder where they are, but I know they exist.

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

:rotfl: GO for it Did you see those pics of Britney in the paper earlier this week? Lost all her baby pregnancy weight, looking really good. I say go for it

Yep, 26lb's in a month..............wow! When they enter the weekly mags, they are all mine mwahahahaha (Sorry, I collect anything/everything Britney)

She looks great, can't wait for the comeback and the way she plays the papparazzi is :T :T :T

Sazbo

feelinggood wrote:

Yay Miro! That your ultimate Fanatasy then?

I cant leave OH - I'm dependant on him and would have no where else to go unfortunatly
He is a nice bloke, and he does love me. Its acceptable.

I totally understand that fg, but at the same time if you're not 100% happy it seems like you're settling for less? Just my thoughts... x

feelinggood_2

Sazbo wrote:

I totally understand that fg, but at the same time if you're not 100% happy it seems like you're settling for less? Just my thoughts... x

It is settling, but there isn't an alternative

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

Yay Miro! That your ultimate Fanatasy then?

I cant leave OH - I'm dependant on him and would have no where else to go unfortunatly
He is a nice bloke, and he does love me. Its acceptable.

Britney and 'S'?

Ultimate fantasy has always been Britney, well since she started existing in the public eye...........I see 'S' differently. I just wanna be with her, as she is such an amazing young lady.....I think I said she is 24.......she's 25 I now find out, but she really is an amazing young lady. The way she is, is just......I dunno, how can anyone have hurt someone so adoreable? Why? Her own flesh and blood as well, some of them. She doesn't even bad mouth the people that have hurt her, and when things come up that i'm scared about, she tells me she's gonna look after me!!!! I'm 1'4" taller than her :rotfl:

It sounds like your relationship is complicated. Really hope it works out, but I do think he should treat you better, especially when you are down.