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  • borders_dude
    borders_dude Posts: 1,974 Forumite
    DX2 wrote: »


    Your case will NOT, I repeat will NOT be accepted by the ICE without having first followed and completed the standard CSA complaint procedure.
    When dealing with the CSA its important to note that it is commonly accepted as unfit for purpose, and by default this also means the staff are unfit for purpose.
  • CSA_Help
    CSA_Help Posts: 1,318 Forumite
    Loopy_Girl wrote: »
    Ladies, I wouldn't even waste your breath feeding the troll....we all know what she's like:rolleyes:


    LG

    What is a troll .I can make a rough estimate
  • dave4545454
    dave4545454 Posts: 2,025 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    can't have been easy for your daughter to attend a DNA test. was there a possibility he wasn't the father?
    Martin has asked me to tell you I'm about to cut the cheese, pull my finger.
  • sash6_2
    sash6_2 Posts: 8 Forumite
    no doubt at all dave that he was the "father"...just his way of stalling the process of paying....it was a very difficult time for my daughter but shes a tough cookie...:cool: ....
    ....great news to report since my original complaint just 5 days ago to the CSA,ICE and my local MP i recieved a call today from the CSA telling me my first payment in 13 yrs will be cleared in my bank fri....sharnt count my chickens before they've hatched.... .seeing is believing....:eek:!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    but thanks again for all the feed back.....:T
  • dave4545454
    dave4545454 Posts: 2,025 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    congrats, good to see some justice and you'll be getting payments :)
    Martin has asked me to tell you I'm about to cut the cheese, pull my finger.
  • Fantastic news!
  • There are some men out their that given the chance will never pay any money towards the up keep of their children. My ex being one of them...he pays minimal amount despite being a policeman laughable i know a policeman with thousands of pounds of arrears. But thats where we are at!!!
  • i totally agree some men would avoid ever paying given the chance...
    very selfish indeed...i spoke too soon on my last post as i was due my 1st payment in 13 yrs in my bank fri n to no great surprise it wasnt there!!!!!
    dissapointed....fed up with the system....and losing faith in the system is an understatement......:mad:
  • kelloggs36
    kelloggs36 Posts: 7,712 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    There are also some women NRPs who will go to the same lengths to avoid.
  • CSA_Help
    CSA_Help Posts: 1,318 Forumite
    kelloggs36 wrote: »
    There are also some women NRPs who will go to the same lengths to avoid.

    Good on you Kelloggs we aren't that bad after all :rotfl:
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